Scorpio Women and Sagittarian Men? What are the possibilities?!


Question: I have had quite a few Sagittarian men in my life: friends, colleagues (at work and in the arts), and one lover. I find that they are inspiring movers and shakers but almost always completely out of their element when it comes to emotional intelligence, depth, and closeness. I feel fired up (literally and metaphorically) when I am with them, but since they seem to need a lot of freedom and don't enjoy deep conversations I usu. wind up feeling emotionally starved if I rely on them. Yet, when I try to pull away or put the friendship in the margins, they squawk and protest like babies. It's cute. But they still cannot give me what my Scorpio soul needs. They just do not understand. So, I consider them working friends and artist friends, when deep down I desire deep connections. I am learning that you should not try to buy oranges at the hardware store, as the old saying goes.

What do you say? What have you discovered ab. Scorpio-Sagittarian relationships?


Answers: I have had quite a few Sagittarian men in my life: friends, colleagues (at work and in the arts), and one lover. I find that they are inspiring movers and shakers but almost always completely out of their element when it comes to emotional intelligence, depth, and closeness. I feel fired up (literally and metaphorically) when I am with them, but since they seem to need a lot of freedom and don't enjoy deep conversations I usu. wind up feeling emotionally starved if I rely on them. Yet, when I try to pull away or put the friendship in the margins, they squawk and protest like babies. It's cute. But they still cannot give me what my Scorpio soul needs. They just do not understand. So, I consider them working friends and artist friends, when deep down I desire deep connections. I am learning that you should not try to buy oranges at the hardware store, as the old saying goes.

What do you say? What have you discovered ab. Scorpio-Sagittarian relationships?

I had to laugh when I read your question (and all the other additions)...you really already know, don't you? You perfectly described both what a Sag needs, what you as a Scorp need, answered your own question about shopping for oranges when you need a wrench, and you already know about the other aspects in the charts that influence relationships....and your description of Sag men when they lose their "buddy" is right on...

So, after carefully reading your post, I will now humbly submit...

Yes, as you know, friendships with Sag-Scorp are common, as Scorps often have Air signs in their houses, and are so perceptive of human nature that they forgive the Sag is "bodily function" humor and gregarious, almost annoying spunkiness. And the whine and snivel you hear when departing isn't really clinginess, honest....it's really "the world should be fair" feelings leaking out of the Sag...Sag have that high mindedness and believe that everything is going to be okay..and you as the Scorp know that's just not the way life always is, don't you?
So you (often unknowingly) act as a teacher to Sag in that way by giving him a little life lesson. It's not nice, but well, it's good for him. He just doesn't know it yet..

In fact, it's good for all the Sags to be around you, because you provide them with a much needed reality check....and they will probably even come back and thank you for it later, once they've rebounded like the little Tigger's that they are...it's important for them to know that all of life isn't about them, and you're doing them a service by letting them know that...

As far as deeper relationships are concerned, if you fancy another Sag, let's hope there's a bunch of water and a few earth signs in his chart...a water moon and a water venus would be great...otherwise, the "buddy" effect you've already experienced will take over...and you've already been there, haven't you?

I believe that the answer to your question is not in the chart of your friends, but in your own chart.

Examine your chart: do you have a Venus in Sag? That would make you naturally attracted to them. A Uranus in Sag would make Sags gravitate toward you like moths to a flame...

What are YOUR needs? Look at your 7th house of partnership, your North Node sign (if your NN is in Sag, guess what? There's a good chance the Sag of your dreams is out there, too...LOL.) If your South node is Sag, then perhaps the attraction is because you knew each other before.

I hope this helps and answers your question. If not, please repost and I'll try harder next time...

Very best of luck to you, smart lady...

Not a believer in that kinda stuff...

Anybody really is compatible...

Me and my husband R: Taurus and Pieces,,,,And we have been married 12 years.....so there ya go.......

If a Bull and the Fish can work,,,,I'm sure any other sign will do...

the possibilty is slim

Star signs makes no difference to peoples lives. You might as well wear your jacket inside out so the pixies don't make you get lost.

Sagittarians can be rather direct speakers and do not consider if they are hurting anyone by their comments. Yes they are, like Aries, dynamic people to be with but they can tread all over your emotions without a backward thought. As a water sign Scorpio probably has the worst time of it emotionally. They do say Scorpio gets on well with Cancer but sometimes I think that is just a bit too much water washing emotionally over each other. How about a well balanced Libra or a tidy Virgo.

I am a scorpio female that has dated a few sagittarians. I've noticed that like you I'm drawn to them they are ambitious, social and outgoing but I noticed that they are not serious enough for me. Its true they dont want you to go but they dont change a thing.

I am a scorpio and my fiance a sagittarius. We are completly different, but that is OK, as long as we accept each others differences. It is true that I am more of an emotional being, and long for those deep conversations. He trys, but can be harsh with his words. I find that as we both work on it, it gets better.

get ready for world war three!!!

but i do think u'll make a great couple.. i like scorpio myself. though, i cant stand their not-so-natural temper. but they are great. seriously!

In my personal opinion, I realise that Sagittarius men tend to have family problems. Most of them result in divorcing etc. I never get to ask what their wives horoscopes are too. >.<

If you've been with this Sagi for a long time, then things should be ok but if you've just started or known each other for like just a few years and you keep arguing etc, I suggest that you let this Sagi go.

To be with a Sagittarius, THEY need to understand you. If they fail to do so, then I suggest you find a Cancer, Taurus, Pisces, Leo.

Horoscope love match:
Scorpio woman - Sagittarius man

The Scorpio woman is attracted to the Sagittarius man’s opportunist nature, but his fiery spirit doesn’t involve feelings.

The Sagittarius man needs to be free to come and go as he pleases, whereas the Scorpio woman needs to know exactly where and what he’s doing.

The Scorpio woman - Sagittarius man combination is sexually exciting and great for a fling, but could be a very steamy, torrid affair.



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