Cancer moodswings...?!
Question: My friend is a cancer and has the worst mood swings i have ever come across. She'd always complaining, nothing seems to make her happy there is ALWAYS something negative about everything!!
Anyone know a way to keep them happy or deal with their tantrums!?!
She's 22 and she acts like a moody teenager
Answers: My friend is a cancer and has the worst mood swings i have ever come across. She'd always complaining, nothing seems to make her happy there is ALWAYS something negative about everything!!
Anyone know a way to keep them happy or deal with their tantrums!?!
She's 22 and she acts like a moody teenager
bring them their fave drink or snack or just leave them alone for temporary solution.
for the thought, is there anything entirely positive?
moodswings are mood swings and cancers are known to have em a lot more than the other 11 sun signs, i can understand why it is the worst. but complaining and constantly having negativity and dissatisfaction, is actually an attitude problem, everybody at some point of their life, regardless of their sun sign, has it.
instead of complaining in yahoo answers, talk to her like a grown up supposedly would do, you do not want to put up with her attitude, and she has to work on improving it, as in the long run, if she gets her way w it, its not gonna do her any good. mood swings however, is more difficult to control. its having more to do w the hormones. perhaps, less carbs and more fiber diet, exercise would help.
over time, your friend can learn to point out the positive things and be more selective of commenting negatively and less moody. though she's 22, keep in mind, everybody has a different growth rate.
I am a cancer, but I've learned how to control my mood swings
just tell her to relax and calm down. I know the mood swings can be very annoying, i would just let her be and cool down. She'll be fine within a few minutes or so. The mood swings come and go very quickly
my friend also is dealing with cancer right now, shes 17 though, and yes she tends to have mood swings. the best way is to just know that it is not your fault and do the best to comfort them. it is hard for me to deal with the fact she is ill so i cannot even imagine what cancer patients are going through. all we can do is stand by their side and be there always
My brother is cancer...very irritated by my other Capricorn brother... well cancer is a great person to talk to...but they are easily angered...
my b/f,sis nlaw,iand youngest bros a cancer and never have mood swings like that, think its age and immaturity for ur friend.
FYI only thing b/f does that annoys me is when he is upset at something he really gets effected by it and makes it more of a big deal then he should.
its not that she is always negative it is that you cant see the positive in her logic I AM CANCER
I 'm a cancer and we have bi- polar like mood swings. I feel bad , I don't mean to put people in a negative state of mind . I'm a natural pessimist, I see things for what they are. Where as other people, see what they want to see. Most people are more positive and trusting. But Cancers are very intuitive, so we pick up on facial gestures and tone of speech. So we get offended, more than the average person. Who don't get bothered by little details.
I DEFENITELY agree. my friend is a cancer and she is so unhappy. I'm so in pain when hang out with her like have to watch out her moods and tried to please her coz I'm unhappy when ppl around is unhappy. She is water sign and always put off my passions (i'm a fire sign unfortunately) when we hang out. I found uncomfortable when hanging out with her so I decide to fade away but still keep in touch and be her shoulder to cry on when she needs me.
one of my ex-workmate is also a cancer and I didn't get along well withe her. Actually, not many ppl get along well with her. she is in her fourties but so moody. Thanks god she resigned coz she is unhappy with the performance review otherwise I would be the one who quit coz she kept nagging me.
I don't mind being friends with cancer but will not hesitate to stay away if they are too moody or try to be my mum. I know it their natures but I just couldn't stand, sorry.
as a cancer: steer clear,let it blow out on its own,then let her talk about it. then find some other subject.do not bring it up again. i'm a cancer married to a cancer with 5 friends all cancers.
water signs are said to be moody and highly emotional.
just be thankful that your friend isn't a scorpio.