Scorpios: Have you been able to overcome the Scorpio tendency to cut people out !
Question: ...do something highly offensive, insensitive, intrusive, or hurtful? Intellectually, I know that no one is perfect, and that we all make mistakes. Yet I find that my feelings turn on a dime. What, if anything, have you done to overcome this trait?
Thanks.
Answers: ...do something highly offensive, insensitive, intrusive, or hurtful? Intellectually, I know that no one is perfect, and that we all make mistakes. Yet I find that my feelings turn on a dime. What, if anything, have you done to overcome this trait?
Thanks.
Actually, what you have just described can be a very positive thing - cutting people off from your life, but only once you know that they are a hindrance, obstacle to your development rather than source of aid.
Incidentally, I have my North Node in Scorpio and learning to let go completely of inappropriate people, things, situations is one major lesson I have got to learn this lifetime.
The keywords are 'creative transformation' - not merely cutting people off because of vengence, jealousy, vindinctiveness, stubborness etc. It is like a caterpillar going through metamorphosis - once it's turned into a butterfly, why would it want to look back at its caterpillar days? It should fly away and enjoy its newfound freedom!
So it is the same with Scorpios - learn discernment and do not let emotional avoidance or entanglement get in the way. Only then will you make the wisest choice of knowing whom to keep in your life and whom to let go of.
Im sorry to hear that, im no scorpio. but it is true what they say do not scorn the scorpio or you will regret. Just know that your an amazng person and this feeling will sometime past and for right then or now just occupy your time with something you love.
I just get over it & move on i am not mad at anyone i dont know if anyone is mad at me i say do unto others as u would have them do to u !!!!!!
I have worked on my empathy and humbleness. Realizes that I can come across as being highly offensive, insensitive and hurtful at times as well, whether I realized it or not. Forgiveness. Now with that being said, I would point out the things that were hurtful to the other person. Perhaps, they didn't fully realize the consequence of their actions either? At some point, they are either a friend or they are not? Allow enough time and actions by them to reveal if they are or not. Once we eliminate people from our lives, they have a tendency not to get back in! Make sure you are making the right choice and not just doing so based on anger and revenge.
I only walk away from friendships if I believe someone will only cause me trouble, or if the friendship feels more like a side job than comaraderie. Otherwise, we all have our moments.
If you are easily hurt often, I would get involved in some sort of activity that makes you feel good inside, which should strengthen you emotionally.
I only cut and walk when it's a highly sensitive relationship as most people won't get to the point that it will affect me by what they say.. About the only people I've completely cut from my life has been ex-girlfriends as once that bond is broken it won't be completely repaired
why would i avoid this tendency, i only want ppl who can give me respect, bc i always give respect... im not overcoming nothing