Is it normal for virgo men to seem distant from the girls they are interested in!


Question: i been seein this guy for a couple weeks now and one moment he seems so detached and he doesnt care about me then the next he tells me how much he misses me and that im gorgeous etc.. is this normal! im getting mixed msgs constantly im not sure whether to keep pursuing him -- if its worth it.


Answers: i been seein this guy for a couple weeks now and one moment he seems so detached and he doesnt care about me then the next he tells me how much he misses me and that im gorgeous etc.. is this normal! im getting mixed msgs constantly im not sure whether to keep pursuing him -- if its worth it.

I am a virgo, and in one word your question is answered! YES! This is the way we behave. I'm not saying it's right, but this is typical virgo behavior. We have a real hard time staying in the same mood for a long period of time, and also in the same mindset. But once we are in love, we are the most loyal sign. So I hope this encourages you. Be encouraged by the fact that you have a very smart and driven man who will be highly successful at work to take care of your family too! Don't worry, we're a little off kilter, but we're funny in our cynical way. ~smile~

Well, it's nice to be positive thinking and all, but really, don't think it'll be 100% different. We as virgos are very distant at times and very clingy at times. That's that. You can't call a pie a cake baby girl.


Okay, I hear you. Listen...when you're dealing with a virgo, you have to be strong. Do Not show that you are confused. He'll smell the weakness and turn you out. Do this...when he ignores you, walk out and don't communicate with him until he initiates. When he initiates, talk, but keep it a little short. If he inbitiates again, it's ok for you to talk to him full out and call him back. This will be hard for you because you're a gem. Gems and virgos are both of communication though, so don't forget it's hard for him too. Play him at his game...he will feel played. Try it.

Virgos are a lot of hard work, but you won't mind once you realize that they put the same anount of work back into you. Just chill, I promise, whether he works out or not, you will find someone some day. He's not the only man on the planet. But if you put some "game" into him, he'll be so intrigued.

I don't think it has anything to do with the fact he is a virgo, i'm a virgo and i am nothing like that, when i've had a girlfriend i'm very attached to them. i would tell them every day i loved them, not because i had to but i wanted to.

Haha actually a Virgo man does this push/pull thing. They do something to push u away then b4 u know it they do something to pull u back. It's actually quite frustrating. They worry to much thats all it is. Careful though cuz when they do this they are actually testing u!

yes, my virgo man is exactly like that...basically right now he is avoiding me so that he can study for his exams....but virgo guys are always very detached...and u need lots of patience to really be with them. is your guy born somewhere around 11 and 19 sept? those virgos r like that....i had one who was born on 7th sept...oh my god, he was sooo caring...everyday made an effort to give me a call even when he was out of town.


well, yeah a year ago i found my virgo guy's detached character very intriguing.....but now i feel very much tired....i mean like an ***...sometimes i am given too much burden by him which gives me mental pressure, and sometimes he just loves me and feeds me well....i am really giving up....my friends say it is similar to an abuse....but i am quite sure that he is not aware of it since thats how his personality is....and i must say here that he was like this with his ex too...for which he got dumped.

Yes, and I wish I had known this a few years ago.
I would still be with "the one."

But heads up...
Gemini and Virgo is a difficult relationship.
I am in one, except I am the Virgo.
It is HARD!

Are you sure he's a Virgo?

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Those Virgo men are characters... Here one minute and then out and about hanging with friends or helping a friend out.. they come and they go and you never really know what they are thinking... He must feel quite confident that he has you.
He has a watchful eye on you.. kinda cute but annoying...
He steps in to compliment you so that you don't make an exit on him.... You being a Gemini will be intrigued with this type.. otherwise you get bored and a bit antsy... Virgo men are sexy, handsome, and it is hard to change their mind once they decide on something... go with the flow and enjoy them... by the way, most are gentlemen but at times you will be walking two steps behind them so make sure you catch up and don't let this happen....( they have many friends and are usually popular in their element) . make sure that you don't get too comfortable yet... wait til you got this guy with a hook, line, and a sinker because they will scare off easy if pushed or ordered around..... good luck.. and have a GOOOOOOD time.

I AM A VIRGO AND I DATED A VIRGO FOR A LONG TIME, IT'S NOT THAT THEY ARE DISTANCING THEMSELVES, IT'S THAT THEY ARE SHY. HE PROBABLY REALIZES THAT HE'S BEING DISTANT AND TRIES TO RECTIFY IT, BUT THEY ARE WHAT THEY ARE, HE SHOULD EASE UP AFTER YOU HAVE BEEN DATING A LITTLE LONGER.



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