Virgo man that I've been dating for 3 months said this-does he really mean s!


Question: we work together and don't want them to know. He said hes never dated anyone at work, but this just happened. But he said it's getting too awkward at work ( which i COMPLETELY agree) so he's going to ask for a transfer. So he's afraid that they will send him a couple of hours away. He want's to not try to move forward with the relationship until he knows what will happen.He's scared he will lose his job if they find out about us. we talked for a long time-he said he;s been hurt before so he has to go slow-it;s hard for him to give his heart away again. He said it would hurt him a LOT if I was to get hurt. He also said we still have a lot to learn about each other-there are still a lot of things he wants to know about me, and there are things about him I may not like.
we had an amazing noght a couple of weeks ago when he asked me a LOT of questions-like do I think I would be a good mom, do I still love my ex,etc.
Any input from those that know about virgo men?


Answers: we work together and don't want them to know. He said hes never dated anyone at work, but this just happened. But he said it's getting too awkward at work ( which i COMPLETELY agree) so he's going to ask for a transfer. So he's afraid that they will send him a couple of hours away. He want's to not try to move forward with the relationship until he knows what will happen.He's scared he will lose his job if they find out about us. we talked for a long time-he said he;s been hurt before so he has to go slow-it;s hard for him to give his heart away again. He said it would hurt him a LOT if I was to get hurt. He also said we still have a lot to learn about each other-there are still a lot of things he wants to know about me, and there are things about him I may not like.
we had an amazing noght a couple of weeks ago when he asked me a LOT of questions-like do I think I would be a good mom, do I still love my ex,etc.
Any input from those that know about virgo men?

If your Virgo man is sitting on the fence, he is carefully deliberating whether this is the relationship for him. He needs to think things over carefully, and will likely over-analyze the workings of this partnership. He will find fault with you, for sure ... but if he feels he can help you improve, your shortcomings are not a dealbreaker.

Only after careful scrutiny will he come to a decision. And if he wants in, he's in all the way. Emotionally and mentally, a wonderful combination — but, not something that stirs your sexual instincts.
Don't barge in or force a discussion when you see that he is thinking, give him time to break away from his thoughts.

He's a problem solver and gets things taken care of once he's had time to think it out. He may appear cold and immune to your emotions or tears, but inside he's genuinely concerned and trying to analyze what your problem is so he can help you. he cares but he shows it differently than most people.
Here's a hint: He likes playing the role of "dad" so let him know that you are counting on him and he'll come through for you. He has a deep sense of fairness, so appeal to that when you want to win a point with him.

Virgo guys are intelligent and thoughtful. He'll remember your birthday and your favorite perfume. Ruled by lightning-quick Mercury, his mind is always going a mile a minute, and he tends to be overly analytical and sometimes critical. Actually, his intelligence is his greatest quality... he sees straight into you-- and lets you know how much he cares.

And what do you know...I'm a capricorn.You should not worry about your relationship that much. This does not mean that you should leave everything the way it is, (even though it'll be imossible for a Capricorn as well) but you should take a break. You're a great match-- both Capricorn and Virgo are Earth signs-- it's simple as PB& J=)

It is a Virgoan thing to put work first, but if I were you I would be cautious of this guy, not especially from an astrological standpoint, but because it really sounds like he might be looking for an out. If I were you, I would play it kind of cool for a while, and just put the ball in his court and see what he does from here. From an astrological standpoint too, it is a Virgoan thing to be freaked out by intense emotions, and want everything in your life to be orderly, perfect and controllable, so that might have something to do with what is going on. But it sounds like he might have some stuff to work out on his own, and about all you can do is to wait it out, making it clear that you like him, but also clear that you're a self-sufficient person who can have fun without him too (and I don't mean make him jealous, just don't be the slightest bit clingy). Wait, and have a good time with him and see what happens, and definitely don't tell anyone at work, since it bothers him so much.

fellow capricorn here,

don't worry about it. in the end virgo/capricorn is meant to be.

1. don't ever hurt him.

2. give him the security you possess.

3. don't ever let him know the things you don't like about him.

4. he's getting more serious about you.

5. let it slide from here.



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