Can U Dissolve a Scorpios Revenge With love?!
Question: My Scorpio friend has finally avenged some stupid stuff I said while drinking one night. I apologized and the whole nine for a week. Yet they ultimately got me back anyway. When we talked I think they were expecting me to be devastated, but I took it on the chin and have continued to be genuinely kind and helpful. Can love help dissolve their vengeful nature or did my reaction just set me up for more to come?
Answers: My Scorpio friend has finally avenged some stupid stuff I said while drinking one night. I apologized and the whole nine for a week. Yet they ultimately got me back anyway. When we talked I think they were expecting me to be devastated, but I took it on the chin and have continued to be genuinely kind and helpful. Can love help dissolve their vengeful nature or did my reaction just set me up for more to come?
Well of course they ultimately got you back. You didn't actually expect them to let it slide, did you? Scorpios are very sensitive and emotional creatures (although they may not always outwardly show it) and pain easily, specifically if they feel that they were betrayed by a companion. When they plan their revenge it's definitely not enough to just get even, they have to execute twice as much damage and have the last laugh.
Scorpios hate to be pestered, so if you have already apologized and they know it then it's enough. Just give them some time and sooner or later they will come to you when they are ready. Don't take it personally, it's just the nature of the Scorpio.
in my opinion if you keep apologizing, you'll probably get on their nerves. you need to give them time to think, once a scorpio is upset, especially by someone close, they are hurt more than anything in the world. the best thing to do is talk, tell them exactly how you feel and don't keep apologising. it'll get annoying. they are just upset, but they will hopefully they will come around. you just need to admit your mistakes to them, that way they will see you for who you are, scorpios can read anyone and will tell if you are lying to them or not. if they are not talking about it, just justify and explain your behaviour. but it may take a while for them to trust you fully again. hope it goes ok!
Remember Scorpios are often called the detectives of the Zodiac. They might listen to our apologies, but all the while be investigating how to hurt you worse. I have had a lot of experience with Scorpios and they truly feel when they are wounded that they need to strike back twice as hard. Keep being loving to them, only watch your self very closely.
I'm a Scorpio (11/12) and I ame very vengeful. It takes a lot for me to forgive someone and about a minute for me to forget.
If I was this person and you kept apologizing I would get really annoyed with you. Give them air and they'll come around, otherwise corner you and sting. It's your call.
I am a Scorpio and if you kept apologising to me I will have even more doubts that you truly didn't mean to hurt me. Give Scorpio space to think and they will realise there's no need to revenge. I do have to admit I have a vengeful nature, yet I only use it when needed. If a friend did something that hurt me...the first thing that will come to my mind is to hurt them twice as bad, but as I think it thru I come to my senses and understand that my friend didn't mean it, so I simply get over it/ Just give Scorpio space and time to think, if you did nothing on purpose don't think your friend will revenge. The truth is, Scorpio is very sensitive and although they seem calm and cold sometimes we feel more emotions than average. I am pretty sure your friend will realise you didn't mean to hurt them, just don't apologise anymore.