I really need a scorpios help ! its about my scorpio friend...(im an aquarius)?!


Question: ok so basically..im, asc-libra, sun
aquarius, moon-taurus and my best friend is asc-aries, sun-scorpio, moon-scorpio ok to start off i STRONGLY believe in astrology so please don't leave me any comment telling me astrology is bullshit. the people i need to help me with this is well another scorpio =] ill greatly appreciate it. and if you really have something good to say and you don't fall into the catogory of scorpio ok fine say it ;] just mention your sun/moon and asc sign. thanks =]. she need so much attention and she needs to feel like ill always be there for her. WELL TRUTH IS I WILL. it gets annoying that i feel like i have to prove it to her.constantly. and you know is the aquarian i am i get all detached and she gets confused, i try telling her too take some things i say not too seriosly.
she takes things too seriously. she is WAY too sensitive which is a good/bad thing. and i feel like if i say something f.u.c.k.e.d up i should be sorry, but if she does than no problem.


Answers: ok so basically..im, asc-libra, sun
aquarius, moon-taurus and my best friend is asc-aries, sun-scorpio, moon-scorpio ok to start off i STRONGLY believe in astrology so please don't leave me any comment telling me astrology is bullshit. the people i need to help me with this is well another scorpio =] ill greatly appreciate it. and if you really have something good to say and you don't fall into the catogory of scorpio ok fine say it ;] just mention your sun/moon and asc sign. thanks =]. she need so much attention and she needs to feel like ill always be there for her. WELL TRUTH IS I WILL. it gets annoying that i feel like i have to prove it to her.constantly. and you know is the aquarian i am i get all detached and she gets confused, i try telling her too take some things i say not too seriosly.
she takes things too seriously. she is WAY too sensitive which is a good/bad thing. and i feel like if i say something f.u.c.k.e.d up i should be sorry, but if she does than no problem.

Your ASC is opposition to her ASC, your sun square her sun and your moon is opposition to her moon. This is a very challenging relationship between you 2, but you already say you 2 are best friends then its probably you see something rewarding in this relationship. Besides you are an aquarian, and aquarians value friendship and brotherhood more than anything else . You sound like a very good friend to her buddy. I am a cancer with pisces moon , so my sun and moon trine the scorpio sign , my ASC is libra, so I can relate to you to a greater or lesser degree . Scorpio is the most possessive and mysterious sign of the zodiac, their feelings are never fake and always intense . They take everything seriously and treat things with all their heart. But once you have got their trust , they will be the most loyal human being and their loyalty will put others to shame. You can sit her down, have a serious talk with her without all the jokes in between. She sure will listen since she is the kind who appreciates seriousness.Also, you should say in a calm and polite manner that if you wont say f.u.c.k.e.d up thing to her, she also needs to stop say those things back to you. ( Use your Libra charm and sweet-with-word way to talk hey) Although you are detached as an aquarian, but as I said, you also have a fixed taurus moon, and it has been proven that you are a fixed and loyal friend, if you had an , say aries or sagittarius moon, you would have run away from her a long time ago.

you say you 2 are best friends, then probably she is the one who understands you the most which is the great thing as aquarian rarely pour their heart out to anyone . You yourself also are experiencing a struggle, because your sun and moon squares each other, its a clash between your identity and personality . if you strongly believe in horoscope then its the taurus moon that still keep your friendship alive.

I really hope things will improve for you two, overcoming challenging aspects in horoscope will bring great and rewarding benefits .

Oh my, I also have mars in cancer, but its a conjunction between my mars and my sun. That makes me a very determined person. Though I admit I incline towards passive agressiveness , and I resist changes but I will change once I deem neccessary. Mind you, the love of my life is also an aquarian with mars in Capricorn ( and 5 others planet in cappy ) lol ....Those "exbestfriends " of her probably werent her bestfriends, because one can only so much bestfriend in life. Its true that you need freedom , but Scorpios value promises and words very much, I think you should not make promises and break them as that can be considered untrustworthy by scorpios. The right thing to do for you 2 is to compromise. Like I said, talk to her. About the calling, leave her 2,3 texts , maybe 2,3 voice calls every 2,3 days , and wait for her to come to you. If she values the great friendship , she will come to you. And yeah, mars-moon trine is great at expressing emotions., something that aquarians are not really good at. I am surprised you talk about feelings with her, because aquarians dont know about other emotions as well as their own emotions.

scorpios need emotional reassurance. they want to feel as close to you as possible. don't become detached, because scorpios are anything but detached to the people they love so they'll think you don't care (you do, but they're not sure).

wow. I am currently having this exact same problem with my scorpio friend. I understand the controlling aspect of this sign can be really strong at times, almost to the point of being unbearable. Plus the need for attention and doubt of your friendship can be really strong. In my case the scorpio has also left a trail of friendships because no one could take it anymore, despite their amazing qualities. I think, however that the best approach to this if you value the friendship is to be completely understanding, AND continue asserting yourself. Rely on any good conversational skills to get your point across. I've found that especially with scorpio you need to actually sit down and build up a level of seriousness about the issue, and make sure they know this really affects you(because it really does, they make you CRAZY sometimes). Dont bs, or create drama, because they cannot stand drama in the least. Just be simple, sincere and to the point. Let it sink in. Trust me i've tried it and it has worked. However, it doesn't mean they are going to change, because scorpios do not change very easily...and heaven forbid YOU should change them! You probably need to develop some tactful approach which applies to your scorpio.
and as far as the making plans thing...i TOTALLY understand that. It's really important that you dont make plans which you dont intend to keep. Scorpios remember every little offense and these built up may actually ruin the friendship. Believe me, I wish I hadn't done so much of the flake thing in the beginning, I am certainly paying for it now.
Bottom line, they are a hell of alot of work as friends, they don't always say everything that you wish they would, and then say YOU are creating drama when you try to pry it out of them. I'm still trying to decide if it's even worth it to pry anymore, even though I know they have something they wish to say.
Anyhow, just recognize that with a scorpio friend sometimes you will have to be the one that tends to the friendship, keeping it in check, because its something that they just have fundamental problems understanding at times.
On the good side however they are loyal if everything is working out well...this might be enough to save it, you decide


I am a virgo btw :)



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