What is this Scorpio thinking???!
Question: I have 2 best best friends, one is a Scorpio and one is a Libra. I'm an Aquarius and I make one of almost the worst matches with Scorps.
I feel like I act more like a Cancer at times though, since my rising sign is Cancer. My Scorpio friend is always so cold and spaced. And she always tells my Libra friend secrets that I've never heard of. She always teases me and I kind of take them seriously. I sometimes feel like she's always mad at me for some reason. Like, sometimes she ignores me and only talks to my Libra friend. But most of the time, she's all nice to me again. For example, when I lost my boyfriend, she was there to comfort me with my Libra friend.
I really want to know what my Scorpio friend is thinking. I know she doesn't hate me, but then why is she acting like she hates me most of the time and that she only cares about my Libra friend??
Answers: I have 2 best best friends, one is a Scorpio and one is a Libra. I'm an Aquarius and I make one of almost the worst matches with Scorps.
I feel like I act more like a Cancer at times though, since my rising sign is Cancer. My Scorpio friend is always so cold and spaced. And she always tells my Libra friend secrets that I've never heard of. She always teases me and I kind of take them seriously. I sometimes feel like she's always mad at me for some reason. Like, sometimes she ignores me and only talks to my Libra friend. But most of the time, she's all nice to me again. For example, when I lost my boyfriend, she was there to comfort me with my Libra friend.
I really want to know what my Scorpio friend is thinking. I know she doesn't hate me, but then why is she acting like she hates me most of the time and that she only cares about my Libra friend??
Hm well, I guess probably she likes you. I have some Scorpio friends and sometimes they act similar to what you said but not exactly that way, I think Scorpios need a lot of time to understand about you before they trust you. Actually they might understand but still be unsure and or if their sense tell them to be cautious because they attract troubles sometimes, they would be cautious for a long time. I have one friend and she was almost like what you said, she was closer to other friends of me than to me but because I am the most patient person in the group (I am Taurus and I can wait even years) I gave her time, I guess it was a lot of time but now she shares things with me as with the others. I was nice and friendly and she started to feel more comfortable with me with the years than before. Just give her some time, when she comforted you (I am sorry you broke up with your boyfriend) means she cares about you otherwise she would not really bother even to say a word if she doesn't care, believe me. Maybe the Libra friend makes her feel more 'at home' and more ready to say things right away spontaneously but be sure in that, if you lay stable foundation of the communication with her one day when you do not expect she will come and share things to you as a real great friend. Then the next day she might not pay attention to you, according to her mood but if generally she starts to trust you once and you are loyal, that would be for all the time. Just be careful because sometimes Scorpios are too sensitive and might get hurt and then it takes do not ask me how long for them to deal with themselves before they appear again.
Libra people are fun and nice, they take the things easier but they are really very emotional as well. I suggest you just be nice to the Scorpio friend, like she never ignores you, make sure you show you are feeling alright even if she ignores you, then ignore her a little bit too as well but still be nice and friendly and she will eventually open up and be closer to you. Make yourself a bit msterious and she would be interested to find out more about you. If she talks to you, talk to her, if she doesn't, then do not you too, try to get use to her mood changes but be nice and honest for everything. She is like that because Scorpios are always a bit aloof but they are very loyal, a Scorpio friend is definitely worth to have. Take care!
u should talk to your Scorpio friend..... Maybe tell her something about yourself she's never known about you. A "good" Scorpio isn't given to selling secrets, so you should trust that you can trust her to keep them.
You haven't told me enough but i can still give you good pointers about her.
Never allow her to perceive you as a wimp or weak. She needs to know she is the center piece of your thoughts, don't take her for granted. She likes money, but has the foresight to be patient if you have the potential to achieve it. When aroused to anger, she can become acidic and raucous, so thicken your skin and turn a deaf ear.
She'll probably forget what she said or how angry she was within a half hour. Watch your behavior and be discreet, because she is concerned what others will think or say about her.
Don't show that you are defeated by anything. Always appear undaunted by even the most trying circumstances. Don't be peevish or vacillating, be happy and positive instead. Don't be caustic, cynical or abrasive like she can become, but demonstrate cool calmness and self control. She'll freak out and wonder how come she is not getting under your skin anymore.
Aquarius is a much more extroverted sign and Cancer softens you BUT, Cancer have a deadly anger. Am I mistaken ?
If Scorpio can sense that they can get a grip on you, then they instinctively know your weakness. They always want to control if possible . WHY ? They love a challenge and if you offer a challenge, they will respect you. Even in love affair, Scorpio do not like weak people.
Scorpios are generally very mysterious, cold, and with purpose. This isn't a bad thing, but it can reflect poorly on others. They can hurt people without reason, and often have a hard time evaluating their actions.
As a Pisces, I generally get along very well with Scorpios because I'm very empathetic to their nature, and know how to keep myself on guard while drawing sympathy from them. Scorpios are very secretive. They don't want you to know what they are thinking, and you should honor that. If they sense you are prying into their minds, they will shut you off. You need to respect their nature.
First and foremost, I would not suggest ever exacting ANY kind of revenge on her. If you feel like she's talking behind your back, do not - for any reason - ever talk behind hers (No eyes for an eye) or she will hurt you back ten times worse. Scorpios are very vindictive, you do not want to slight them.
Secondly, if this friendship is important to you, I would suggest that instead of caring so much what's going on with her, that you care about yourself. If you feel like she's hurting your feelings or being mean to you, call her on it when she does it to your face. Tell her out right when she is being cold and spacey that you feel like she's distancing herself from you. If she shrugs it off, just offer your hand if she ever needs it. When she teases you and you think she's being honest, tell her that there and then. Don't pout, just communicate.
She might just be treating you like a toy, and that is how she appreciates your company. If you don't like that, then you need to tell her as gently as you can when she does it. Just communicate