Help . . .! I didn't think my relationship with this Gemini was going anywhe!


Question: And I couldn't get him to commit to long term. So I decided to leave but everytime I even suggested or attempted to take action in this regard he would literally beg me to take him back, and I usually did .
However, as I basically did not want a short term relationship I decided to try yet again to leave, manufacturing all sorts of mis-communicating and mis-understandings.
But now he stopped calling me ( as if he had had enough) and as if he stopped caring about me anywhich way or the other.
Howcome I feel down? isn't it what I wanted ?
I still dont want us to get back together if there's no long term commitment on his side.
What's the deal? and how can I get over him once and for all?
Was it all a game from his side or a BIG LIE?
We have been together for 7 months.
I am a Capricorn
I feel hurt and cheated


Answers: And I couldn't get him to commit to long term. So I decided to leave but everytime I even suggested or attempted to take action in this regard he would literally beg me to take him back, and I usually did .
However, as I basically did not want a short term relationship I decided to try yet again to leave, manufacturing all sorts of mis-communicating and mis-understandings.
But now he stopped calling me ( as if he had had enough) and as if he stopped caring about me anywhich way or the other.
Howcome I feel down? isn't it what I wanted ?
I still dont want us to get back together if there's no long term commitment on his side.
What's the deal? and how can I get over him once and for all?
Was it all a game from his side or a BIG LIE?
We have been together for 7 months.
I am a Capricorn
I feel hurt and cheated

well on starsigns gemini, libra and aquarius are all pretty much alike..... we hate being trapped or felt like we are. this is how i think he felt by you constantly reminding him that he was going to be in a long term relationship.

thats not to say we avoid them but we take our time before we show our emotions and relate in an open way to people. this may have been the case if you had entered into a short term relationship with him it would have quite easily ended up in a long term relationship because once we open up even slightly, despite being very social we open up to people very slowly, he would have felt a bond most other people wouldnt have and had a long term relationship with you.

regarding why he hasnt called you, you obviously hurt him as he was probably starting to open up to you. being an air sign he will wait for you to call him.

now apast from starsigns in reality you broke up with him its up to you to fix it. you have to show him how much you like him for him to even consider taking him back. ITS UP TO YOU TO FIX THIS PROBLEM

glad i could help ! ! !

take it slow and don't rush things enjoy each other for each others sake

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  • sounds like he's unsure of himself. I'd advise you to just drop him completely! there are lots of great guys out there, you deserve one who doesn't play head games with you!

    gemini guys are all about fun and loads of girls

    You still have feelings for him you've been with him 7 months it will take a while to get over him. i dont think it was a big lie maybe he just thinks its for the best or is trying to get you to miss him. but if you really dont want to be with him anymore then theres no way to easily get rid of feelings just go out with your friends and hang out alot or find another guy its very tough believe me i've been in a similar situation.
    Sorry i know it feels like complete $#!t right now
    Good luck

    Honestly it's just not gonna work because there's too much of a difference in both of ya'll signs.Obviously he's not the emotional kind and if that's a need of yours to have him open up and show emotion then it does'nt lok like it's gonna happen.If there's no compatibility then it won't work.Go to this site at the bottom of my answer and compare yours and his sign,ok?

    Coming from another Capricorn's point of view, to be honest.. this really isn't an easy match to deal with. I had been involved in the same situation with a Gemini (now my best friend).

    Unless you both have enough planetry influences to counteract the inherent differences in personality (he with some significant amount of earth element in his chart, and you with some significant amount of air element in your chart), this isn't an easy pairing to start with.

    No matter what his other chart influences indicate, he is still a Gemini at heart and will never be able to totally understand or fulfill that inner craving of a Capcricorn woman - for security and stability. They live on the mental, intellectual realm and get bored easily. Unless he has more Fixed signs in his chart like Taurus which can stabilize his flighty nature.

    All the Best

    All geminis will think that clingy isn't cool, maybe they can say "I need u babe" but that just when they are in good moods. If their mood changing, they need only one thing: Stimulation! It could be sex, vacation, hang-out, having fun or anything like their hobbies. If you tied a knot with gemini, u had to know that they need a lotsa activity to make them stay away frm boredom.
    This is the compatibility frm Gemini n Capricorn according to my big book of stellar relationships:
    Cap is the conquest for Gemini. For the Goat, he's a guilty pleasure in otherwise her serious existence. Still they share in all things: news,culture, entertainment. In bed-she takes a charge but he isn't complaint.



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