Cursed Scorpio?!
Question: I know as Scorpios, we're supposed to be very passionate about any and all things, which I am, but alas here is the curse--I cannot experience the real passion of which romance novels are based around. That's right--never had one and never will. So, the question is, how do Scorpios redirect?
Answers: I know as Scorpios, we're supposed to be very passionate about any and all things, which I am, but alas here is the curse--I cannot experience the real passion of which romance novels are based around. That's right--never had one and never will. So, the question is, how do Scorpios redirect?
I'm a scorpio, and I have your answer, if you can understand it and it makes sense to you:
I love music and have played piano for years. I also LOVE to dance, and when I mean "love" I mean I thoroughly enjoy it with a passionate nature. I love it to the bone, and when I experience it (playing music and dancing, or playing piano, particularly a passionate piece, which for me I really enjoy Tori Amos and the way she emotes as a musician), I get swept away in it, I completely submerge myself in it, and do not rush myself, just enjoy it and really feel the true pleasure of happiness while doing it. I can do this for hours and get lost, and afterwards, I feel completely revitalized within myself and my soul. This is similar to how I feel when making love to someone I really feel passionate about or lust after, or of course, truly love heart and soul. I have cried from being emotional during sex, and I've had orgasms that have lasted for eternity.
Having said all that, I think if you can find an outlet that you truly find artistic, spiritual, soul awakening...whatever that may be, this can be an "outlet" that can replace your temporary unfulfillment from not having experienced an orgasm.
I think, once you can allow yourself to submerge and enjoy a pleasure without any sort of pressure, and once you can understand within yourself what brings you as a person great joy personally, then you are on the road to also experiencing an orgasm. Keep in mind, an orgasm is a release, and if you have not experienced it yet, there may be something subconciously blocking you from experiencing it; maybe through some outlet work you can find out what this block may be, and your body will finally allow you to let go and experience a sexual orgasm.
Either way, even after you get to experience a sexual orgasm, it is still important to keep these artistic outlets for yourself in life, as a spiritual things, especially for Scorpios who have so much repressed emotional energy that needs to be released somehow.
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Read some books about this.
First off if you think those books are even close to the real thing your way off base , as far as orgasm gos if your thinking its supposed to be like in those books you are wrong, when your feelings for someone are so intense that just being near them makes you shudder the orgasm is sure to follow. maybe you need a man or woman to teach you a few things , I know I have had to teach a few Women in my day because unfortunatley in this day no-one bothers to tell us. They are better Women for it and now have happy sex lives . Anyway stop reading those books and let you heart take over , Man or Woman you can do it.
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OMG! This whole question has depressed me. Now I have to leave work early and get my lover to satisfy me, cause I'm afraid if I think about it too long, I'll be cursed like you!
Maybe it's the WHO and nothing else...good luck!