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Question: capatibility between a libra woman (october 20 )and an aries man ( march 28)? what would this match be like?


Answers: capatibility between a libra woman (october 20 )and an aries man ( march 28)? what would this match be like?

Dear Ms. Suewilli''s,

This can be a very good match or a very short interlude altogether. There are other things in the chart besides the sun sign that are determinative here. You need to look at the moon sign and rising sign and the placement of Mars and Venus in the charts of the two individuals to get a good look at the personalities.

However, that being said, it is important to realize which one is the Aries. There are vast differences between male and female Aries. Only a few signs are like this, most signs have similar characteristics between the genders.

The Aries female will most likely be aggressive and there can be a lot of passion between these two. On the other hand, depending on the personalities, there has to be a playfulness among these two, for they both can try to dominate the other (note Cardinal signs are used to bossing people around) So while the Aries might tell the Libra what to do, the Libra might be cooperative at first but then get a bit ticked off and tell the Aries to take a hike off a short plank!

Aries and Libra always test each other. While Aries tends to be impulsive, fast, trying to be first, instinctive, street wise, the Libra will be more strategic, a bit more refined, tactical and slower to act. As a result, you end up in a situation where the Aries wants to jump into things and the Libra is like, hold on there, do you have any idea what you are doing?

For the relationship to work, there must be a middle ground where the two must compromise. There has to be an understanding on many levels what the rules are. If this is not discussed, the relationship will be strained. As I said, this relationship can work and work very well as I speak from personal experience.

Regarding the male/female Aries personality. The male likes to dominate and generally speaking feels that woman are subservient to him. Sorry about this ladies, but it is the truth. He is also extremely sensitive so watch what you say but he can also be very charming, adventurous and funny! So, he can be a lot of fun to be around but you need to know the psychology. He is a fire sign and likes adventure and conquest. If the Libra isn't a conquest he will loose interest. Fortunately, Libra's beauty and intellect tend to win the day here.
If the Aries is a female it's a lot different. Here you have essentially a man in woman's clothing. Don't get me wrong, she has a female body, but there is a huge amount of Yang energy going on inside that body. That means, she thinks like a man, feels like a man, and if the Libra man isn't strong enough, she will go it alone! Her attitude is I need a strong man to depend upon in this life because of all the nonsense in this world. However, if her man isn't strong enough, she will do it herself! You will find most Aries woman at ease around other men. This is not be cause she is flirting with them or having sexual relations with them (although this does happen sometimes), its because she can identify with the way men feel and talk about. She can't stand catty talk among females, discussing clothes and all that female stuff. Give her a beer, hang out with the guys and talk about real life stuff! So, in this regard she can be very friendly with her Libra mate. However, emotionally, the Libra has to understand her strength yet vulnerability (i.e. sensitivity) at the same time. It's a tough one to balance as Aries can be temperamental and childish if they don't get their way.

Now, as for the Libra side, both male and female tend to be similar. They believe in equality in a relationship and won't tolerate for long if it is not. Although Libras are known to stay in abuse type relationships for they are always looking for the perfect love! They generally have a positive attitude and enjoy the finer things in life whether they have money or not they always add a little style, some finishing touches to their environment.
Both Libra men and woman can be manipulative at times, because they understand psychology of individuals fairly well, they know how to play mind games. However, playing against an instinctual Aries, they can sometimes lose the battle. Again, compromise is key here! It's not about winning! If you compromise, you both win!!
Libra's have certain rules about what relationships are about and have certain expectations. If this Aries does not meet these expectations, they will be upset. Many times they hide their feelings until it builds up and then they "explode" and let the Aries have it right between the eyes! This isn't typically healthy but it is normally what happens. The Libra needs to express their fears and anxieties before they build up.
Libras are very good at pointing out the faults of others or rather should I say how others could improve themselves, however, quite often they have a big blind spot about themselves. It's not they don't understand it, it's just they choose not to focus on the negative side of their personalities until someone confronts them. then they graciously apologize and correct their behavior.

Well, I believe I have rambled on enough. Fire and Air are very good matches and opposites do attract for sure. So, I don't really care what the books say about these two, they definitely are a winning combination if they both want to have a relationship with the other.

Libras and Aries usually have an opposites attraction between them.
"The attraction between natives of Libra and Aries is common, but not one that is necessarily long lasting. These are two very different characters with widely varying personalities. The Aries individual is a firm believer in equality of the sexes and equality in the romantic arena. Initially, he or she will be amused at Libra's attempt to dominate the relationshp, but when Aries comes to the realization that his or her Libra partner is deadly serious about this, conflict is sure to arise. Here, both partners will be impulsive and that could be one of the reasons for an initial attraction. Those governed by Libra are always willing and ready to help others, which the Aries subject scorns as being a gross waste of time...particularly if the Aries native believes the person in question capable of doing better if only he or she would employ a little more effort. In addition, the Aries partner is not above using Libra's inferiority complex to his or her own personal advantage. Those ruled by Aries may sadistically endeavor to keep Libra down, especially if there has been a loss of respect in the relationship. This state of affairs will not last long since the inherent Libra love of romance and tendency to wander will soon put the Aries partner in a combatant mood which, in turn, disgusts the harmony-loving Libra individual. This union is likely to be a shaky partnership at best."
To read more on it, check out this website (I didn't feel like posting it all):
http://www.novareinna.com/constellation/...



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