Hyper Gemini getting bored with Cautious Cancer...what should I do..??!
Question: I'm a Gemini and of course I like to get the 'show on the road' ! I like things to move quikly, and that goes for relationships too, but my boyfriend is a Cancer, and as we all know they like to take their time with relationships, and want things to move extra slow, and build up...that's all fine and good, but how do I keep from losing interest in the mean time..?? it has been 7 months ! and I see absolutely no progress ! We've only had sex 4 times, went out on a few dates and see each other maybe once a week, but talk everyday all day.
Give me some advice.... would you wait around or move on..??
How long is it going to take for him to 'fall in love, and let his guard down..??
Answers: I'm a Gemini and of course I like to get the 'show on the road' ! I like things to move quikly, and that goes for relationships too, but my boyfriend is a Cancer, and as we all know they like to take their time with relationships, and want things to move extra slow, and build up...that's all fine and good, but how do I keep from losing interest in the mean time..?? it has been 7 months ! and I see absolutely no progress ! We've only had sex 4 times, went out on a few dates and see each other maybe once a week, but talk everyday all day.
Give me some advice.... would you wait around or move on..??
How long is it going to take for him to 'fall in love, and let his guard down..??
I know what you are going thru. I dated lots of cancers and I am a Scorpio. Cancers actually open up to me allot because I tempt to be more secretive, but I have dated Geminis on the past and from my own experience I would tell you what happened..... I get the same way as your cancer b/f. Water signs are very hard to open up to someone, but the less they open, the bigger the feelings are. Cancer needs reassurance that's all, give it to him. Try to figure him out and talk less about yourself, you can teach cancer how to be more expressing and trust. Geminis and cancer do make a beautiful pair, just don't think cancer is boring or too cautious because they can read minds as well and might think they need to be away for you to want them. In return cancer will always give Geminis all the attention they want.
I am a gemini and I certainly would not put up with only having sex 4 times in 7 months with an exclusive relationship. We are very sensual and yearn for those needs to be met. Along with that I feel you on that note, we thrive on excitement and moving quickly. I dont think that cancer would be for me as a gemini, they are too reserved and too introverted for me not to mention way too quiet for us talkers! lol. I say if your not feeling the natural vibe by now, dont push the issue just move on to a sag, libra or some type of air or fire sign. Water signs tend to be the way you described your partner. Hope this helps, good luck!
Let me tell you this if a cancer man feels that you are the one for him, then he will have no probably sharing his feelings for you. But sometimes you gems can be awfully nosy and it really pisses people off. Honestly I don't think cancers and gemini's are a good match any way. My boyfriend (cancer)was married to a gem and he said being married to her was like living in hell. Maybe you should find a libra, sag, leo, or aqua.