Aquarius,Detached?!
Question: Sometimes i hate my sign(aquarius) because we are so emotionally detached, cant even express my feelings right, it always comes out wrong. i know there are two side of aquarius, the social one and the shy one, i think im a bit of both.so far i've been the quiet sometimes, non social one. I hate it. so far i try to keep it behind me with exercise or something.....
Is there any other aquarius out there like that? if so what do you do, when you feel emotionally detached, how do you feel? when your like this?
Thx, Just Curious
Answers: Sometimes i hate my sign(aquarius) because we are so emotionally detached, cant even express my feelings right, it always comes out wrong. i know there are two side of aquarius, the social one and the shy one, i think im a bit of both.so far i've been the quiet sometimes, non social one. I hate it. so far i try to keep it behind me with exercise or something.....
Is there any other aquarius out there like that? if so what do you do, when you feel emotionally detached, how do you feel? when your like this?
Thx, Just Curious
I KNO EXACTLEY WHAT UR TALKING ABOUT I HAVE THE SAME FEELING...I USED TO BE SHY AND NOW IM TRYING TO TALK MORE BUT, SINCE I WAS SHY BEFORE ITS HARDER AND WEIRDER NOW, AND WHEN IM EMOTIONALY DETACHED I JUST LISTEN TO SOME MUSIC AND EXCERCISE, AND USUALLY I START TO FEEL BETTER
What is your moon sign? I have Aquarius friend who has moon in Taurus...and oh she's sooo freakin emotional...if she mad there would be earthquacke in the world.
If you have moon in fire or air sign---that could be makes you unemotional and logic..moon in Caprcorn also.
If it's any consolation, I was a decided introvert up into my mid-20s, and it's only recently that I've shifted over to being more extroverted and unself-conscious.
Part of it, I think, is finding a group of people that you can consider close friends (not just acquaintences - we're good at getting "acquaintences" but don't really pull in a lot of "close friends", in my experience) where you can start to let your guard down a little bit. That will edge over into other areas.
Ok ya i'm an aquarius and i feel your pain, i'm totally detached and can't express my feelings how I want to. I can also be social and shy at the same time. But I just tend to fight it with herbal meds that keep me going and healthy.
normally when i feel like im detached i just walk up 2 my friends and just start talking. im shy when im around new ppl but not around the ppl i already knew. just try different things and do what works. its kinda fun being an Aquarius
The way we express ourselves is not wrong. It is just the way we do it. Saying it is wrong is accepting somebody elses's version of what is right or wrong. That is not right of them to judge us for being wrong. They do this because they are insecure, and need a power boost on their suffering ego.
Mr. - you are Aquarius. Do not hate your sign. Aquarius' are the much needed forefront leaders of idea, innovation, imagination. We are the visionaries, the inventors. The world would still be in the dark ages if it weren't for the ancestrial Aquarians that discovered all of the ground breaking gadgets and gizmos that have made the quality of life so much better with time.
Like you, I used to be shy and quiet. But my curiosity eventually got the best of me. I joined the service and dang - there was such a vastly diverse range of peoples and personalities, people from all over the world. I would listen to them talk of different customs and such, I just had to ask questions. The responses were so favorable that it just brought me right out of my shyness. Now I get hammered for being too blunt and abrasive! I guess this comes with age! ha ha
Don't hate yourself. Just be patient, because you will not be shy forever. I guarantee it! Maybe with your love of exercise you could become a fitness instructor, phys ed teacher, coach, etc. This will force you to talk with others who share similar interests. I think that is the key - finding like minded people. Ya never know till ya try it! So go for it!
omg!! i can so relate to you..! i hate dat so much when i try to tell people how i feel it cant come out or comes out totally WRONG. or the person just dnt understand me..! some tymes i feel like pulling my hair out it's so frustrating..i undastand..!
We should start a Fan club..! Lol
I tinhk I'm shy tocertain people. Like sometimes with a quiet person I get so talkative with him because I want them to talk. However whenever I meet a quirky awesome person I get sort of quiet but i always love them. Like this one girl I met she's an Aquarius and she's quirky but sometimes I feel so distant around her.
When i feel like that, I don't know I kinda yell in my mind to start talking and I start saying random and funny things
And for some reason people like that.