How To Romance a Capricorn?!!?!
Question: A lot of my fam. members are the goat....they seem so serious and stuck in "work mode" during a relaxing event. I also know they can be VERY sweet and compassionate behind closed doors, but the hard exterior cannot be cracked often. I dated this Cap. girl who was so frigid the first 5 dates to where I felt she was not interested. Until my birthday (in May-Taurus) she decided to let the floodgates open! We were dating off-and-on for a year.
Since Capricorn and Taurus are both earth signs, we know how to conduct ourselves in mixed company and maintain some conservative attitudes....but when I want to get hot-and-dirty in private, the goat pushes more ice! What can I do???????
Answers: A lot of my fam. members are the goat....they seem so serious and stuck in "work mode" during a relaxing event. I also know they can be VERY sweet and compassionate behind closed doors, but the hard exterior cannot be cracked often. I dated this Cap. girl who was so frigid the first 5 dates to where I felt she was not interested. Until my birthday (in May-Taurus) she decided to let the floodgates open! We were dating off-and-on for a year.
Since Capricorn and Taurus are both earth signs, we know how to conduct ourselves in mixed company and maintain some conservative attitudes....but when I want to get hot-and-dirty in private, the goat pushes more ice! What can I do???????
Capricorns love to take short trips.. To unique places.. Yes they are focused on getting the job done. And work hard and long hours.. Your job is to plan a surprise getaway.. Yes I said surprise. Capricorns like surprises but are hard to surprise.
example.. You tell her we are going away for the weekend.. and you will get instructions on what to do or where to go in your birthday card.. And all of this has to be done in advance.. When she opens the card. It says..
9am Pack for 3 days warm & cold weather ... One dressy outfit. and a good pair of walking shoes.. no other details till 11am Be ready to leave
when you pick her up..give her the third envelope which tells her where you two are going..but cant be read until 12noon
We tend to seem serious but are dying to get away for an adventure.
Ok.. now on to .. the bedroom. since they seem to always take positions that are stressful. sometimes you can change their attitude. by a simple hot bath with scented roses floating on top(avail at local flower shops for $10 in all colors-they'll even wrap them for the occations)Give her 20 ;minutes of that along with candles and her favorite music and her favorite drink..Towel dry her on the way out. And You would be able to lure her in.. and put her at ease to play. ; good luck /have fun
I'm Capricorn and you won't believe it, but surprises are best. Be exciting and daring, just kiss the girl :)
They do? They hate surprises, well I know you are asking about Capricorns but I just learned a whole lot from you.
I have a close friend who has sun in Cap. I'm a rising Cap, but both she and I share several things in common. We take dating real slow. Someone heavy in Cap can't be rushed into anything.
I'd say being that we're stable, incredibly responsible with a good head on our shoulders we like someone that's not like us or else we get bored.
We like to set the rules, but they're meant to be broken b/c we like having to roll our eyes. We like someone irresponsible with money, so we can lend them our conventional wisdom.
Based on her and my experiences, we like someone our friends/family wouldn't expect us with(not outrageous though). Male or female, we want someone to take us out of our traditional routine.
Caps are difficult to impress, and earth signs aren't good at impressing Caps. Try something non-earth to romance her. Look into her signs or houses for clues. Also, she might just have that "holier than thou" attitude that a lot of Caps suffer from.
money.
LOL, good question....If a Taurus feels like it's difficult, imagine how it could be for an incompatible sign!
A typical Cap would certainly hate surprises but, all people like displays of affection (public or private).
So, I suggest that you get completely direct about it. But, before that you have to make sure of your intensions....I mean you have to be VERY VERY serious about your decision.
First of all, do you want her to be your gf? If you don't, I believe you shouldn't put too much hope on it unless she has strong Aquarian influences...
Now, independently of your decision, I think that you have to talk to her...but, don't just mention the subject. You have to DISCUSS about it. Make clear what you really want from her and expect her to do the same.
1)You are the one who has to do this- unless you really want these games to continue
2)Don't lie to her (if not anything else, she is definitely going to know it) Be brutally honest even if that hurts
3) In case you want her to be your gf, don't even think about being unfaithful...I'm sure you're going to regret it- Caps may be cold but, when their fire is revealed it can be burning-hot.
4) Make sure you don't sound cocky or wanting to dominate her (that goes for all Cardinal signs)
5) Show her the way...Show her your way. In any case, the decision to follow you or not is hers so, make sure she can see the reasons why she should do so- Cap girls are thinkers. You have to use arguments with her- they all tend to use their minds (which are, by the way, almost always very practical)
6) Make her feel secure- Caps invest too many things when they decide to make a relationship. You have to understand that safety is important to her and that you can only make her jump in when she feels completely secure.
7) Be VERY patient!
Okay, I hope this didn't sound too long....I did my best.
Good luck!