What happens after some time and make the Scorpio people aloof with their friend!
Question: The same happened with all of my Scorpio friends, firstly when we met we become friends very fast because we were just like being so interested to talk to each other and share ideas and being passionate about all the aspects of the conversations we were leading. Then with the time I have feeling these people are just talking to me and being nice with me out of an obligation just because they know I care about them. Actually being a Taurus I do not switch from some people to another people, I still feel I like to talk to the old friends I have from several years as I liked to talk to them in the first day we have met but they are maybe bored of me because maybe they believe they predict how I would react or whatever I would say. Do the Scorpio people think some friendships have worn off and they just keep random conversations from time to time due to good manners? Actually I can not denay we have these good talks as well sometimes but only when we cacth each other on the right moment.
Answers: The same happened with all of my Scorpio friends, firstly when we met we become friends very fast because we were just like being so interested to talk to each other and share ideas and being passionate about all the aspects of the conversations we were leading. Then with the time I have feeling these people are just talking to me and being nice with me out of an obligation just because they know I care about them. Actually being a Taurus I do not switch from some people to another people, I still feel I like to talk to the old friends I have from several years as I liked to talk to them in the first day we have met but they are maybe bored of me because maybe they believe they predict how I would react or whatever I would say. Do the Scorpio people think some friendships have worn off and they just keep random conversations from time to time due to good manners? Actually I can not denay we have these good talks as well sometimes but only when we cacth each other on the right moment.
Life of a Scorpio is quite complicated, and although they are very loyal friends in their hearts, they don't really appreciate the time spent with friends because they always have something very important, always some crucial thing to do that may affect their lives. Their feelings are always in motion, and they suffer trying to make order in their minds. I don't believe that they are bored with you or anybody, just they are restless.
Scorpio's are very intense, complex, and secretive by nature. Even though they don't show it on the outside, they can be easily slighted by the most subtle activities or words. They are naturally suspicious and skeptical making them born investigators, so whenever you speak with them they lean on every word to see if there might be an underlying message in what you are saying. If they feel they have been slighted, or they believe you went too far by asking a personal question....many times they will appear to make an about face and be cool and aloof to you....and you will feel the results as they begin to wean themselves away from the warm, inviting, closeness you thought existed in your relationship.
That is a very interesting question, and you do make a valid point. I am a Scorpio and all my friendships have been short-lived. 4 years is as much as I can stay friends with someone. I never fought with a former friend of mine, I just don't think that we anything to offer to each other any more. All relationships make their circles, and at some point we all change and move on to different things. I don't consider it unfortunate, I think it's a blessing to be able to change. I don't know if it's a Scorpio thing, because apparently Scorpios are loyal to their friends. As far as I'm concerned friendships are overrated. I have friends or I should say, people I like a lot, but they are not the most important part of my life.
In my case I eventually move away from some friends when I feel we just don't have enough in common. Or perhaps they have offended me in some way, but they don't know that. I don't tell them if they have not intended to offend me (if it is just their personality, which may start to grate on me)Jjust maybe I am not in synch with them anymore and their perceptions bug me.
I always like to bring new energy in and move energy that no longer serves my purpose out. Scorpios are constantly transforming, sometimes this means letting go of old friends. Although I always keep a small circle of a few really close friends around me--they have been there many years. I am solitary by nature.