Scorpios, curious question - Most say that once a Scorpio decides to end it, he !
Question: What if he still cares about you a lot and has strong feelings for you. Plus, there was no solid good reason to end it in the first place. No one cheated on anyone. There was no betrayal of any kind. Then a deep discussion, agreement for change and another chance are the topics afterwards and he comes back. So, it is possible, right? Especially with a Scorpio and why? Wouldn't that be unlike a Scorpio?
Answers: What if he still cares about you a lot and has strong feelings for you. Plus, there was no solid good reason to end it in the first place. No one cheated on anyone. There was no betrayal of any kind. Then a deep discussion, agreement for change and another chance are the topics afterwards and he comes back. So, it is possible, right? Especially with a Scorpio and why? Wouldn't that be unlike a Scorpio?
The aspect of the Scorpio personality that you are referring to is our ability to hold a grudge and to trust others. We are very untrusting people and if you wrong us in some way, chances are that's the last you will see of us. Now, in your situation, you say there was no real betrayal? If you didn't do anything wrong to betray his trust or hurt him, he doesn't have any solid reason to not come back to you, based on who he is. On the other hand, there may have been things in the relationship that he didn't like or was uncomfortable with that have absolutely nothing to do with his astrological sign. I am a little confused with your question, so he did come back? Ok, well, see if you want to stay with this man, keep in mind some things about scorpios. We don't like to be betrayed ever and when we are betrayed, we will hate you for the rest of our lives if at all possible. It takes something short of an act of God to get back into our good graces. It is because we give of ourselves FULLY and we expect the same in return. When we don't receive it, we feel that we were screwed or shorted or betrayed. We like close personal relationships with people who we can be totally open and honest with. If you are not who you appear to be, we will pick this up quickly and become disinterested in you altogether. As long as you don't betray this man, he could always come back to you. Just be honest and try to stay on his good side. If you have more questions, please email me!
we'll anythng is possible, but I've always been pretty stubborn. We're all willing to compromise, but it isn't easy. then again, if he feels strong about you, he will focus on you. Thats the scorpio way.
I think you pay way too much attention to astrology. I know plenty of Scorpios who keep going back. I can think of 2 actually who have gone back to the same person 3 times. Maybe you should try analyzing a persons behavior based on them, not on their astrological sign...
I am Scorpio I did return she did not want me other than as a friend, repeated efforts made no difference, I gave up we became friends.
Scorpio or no the people decide not the stars.
That's not true. I have too many Scorpio friends who have been done BAD and still go back. Scorpios even though they are very revengeful are also terrible suckers for love and would rather try to make it work with someone who they are familiar with than try a new relationship out with a stranger.
If the Scorpio decided to end it, I think it is unlikely the Scorpio will return. We are fixed signs, and pretty fixed in our ways at that, generally speaking. Scorpios get really attached to partners, so if he/she was the one to end it, there is a good reason. Just because you love someone it does not mean they are the match for you.
But never say never. I'm sure it can happen. I've ended a relationship with a fellow Scorpio many times but in the past we have gotten back after an agreement to change is made. Whether its wrong or right to do that is something only time tells.
It depends on the reasons why.... If there are big trust issues and such like that , then yes we are gone for good. But it all depends upon the person they love , the devotion they are willing to go to, and how much they are willing to put up with.
I've had scorpios put up with a lot.... Some have wanted to leave and some actually left and came back.. IT all depends upon the reason why the split happened. I know I have one right now who put me thru some crap that I would take back after one good frank discussion.
well scorpios are humans too. if u cheated or do the worst to him and he see u in a trouble or fight he will fight to the last end to defend u. they care. they always care. it is just their pride that they have to cope with. once he end it with u then it is pride that wont let him bend. once they set for a goal it is not about money and power then it is about pride that they have which never let them bend but they are emotional. one tear from your eye will melt his anger and pride because a scorpio has a tough shield on outside only. if u wana go back to his heart just think about him and care for him thats all. he will know that u r thinking about him and will care.
hey a scorpio here is talking.
I'm a Scorpio, and I can't decide what to do about my ex boyfriend. You see, as much as we hate to admit it, us Scorpios are actually very emotional and fairly judgmental creatures, and so when we confess our love for someone, we mean it. When we break off a relationship in the way it sounds like he did, it's usually because we fear being weak and giving in to our emotions. After some thought and such though, we might just reconsider...
I'm a good example of this actually. You see, all throughout my relationship with my now, ex boyfriend, I kept pushing him away without realizing it. Once he pointed it out to me though, I knew immediately why I did it. And it was because I'm female and all my life I've heard how females are weak and emotional. Falling in love with him (my ex), meant falling into a pitfall of emotions. (One of my greatest fears.)
Anyhow. After a while I just let it go and we were happy for quite some time. But then this, this, 'n that happened, and I sent him a Dear John. However, I still had feelings for him... As much as I hated it and still hate admitting it, I still cared for him and thought of him and whatnot. We're talking again now, and I don't know... I'm a bundle of horrible, weak, confusing, lousy, stupid emotions right now. But honestly... I wouldn't mind getting back together with him, I don't think...
I can't explain why. If I could, I'd probably do something to prevent it. I'm not sure if it's unlike a Scorpio though honestly... I think it's just one of those rare things you don't hear or read about. Kind of like Scorpios being caring. You don't hear much about that, eh? It's obvious it's entirely possible. But it's also next to entirely impossible to explain.
Oh well. Much luck to you.
I don't like Scorpio's....