Im a gemini, my husband is virgo/leo cusp, my boyfriend is gemini. Whos more com!
Question: Don't worry about those who are on their high horses. I say, never judge a person till you have walked in their shoes. They have their ghost. Judgmental behavior is for those who have nothing to do, but to judge others, to make themselves feel superior. Anyway, you need to have some time to yourself, understand yourself. Can he prove he's changed? I have been where your at. It's not easy. Do what you feel to be right. But please, don't just jump back into a relationship with your husband, prove to him You have changed, and that you will no longer except less than the best. You deserve that. Go slow, take your time, test the waters, so to speak. If he has changed, then it will show, even if your not living together. People can change, if they have a good enough reason to. To find the real compatibility, you would have to do their total chart. Just the Sun Sign doesn't constitute real compatibility. So you have to rely on your instincts. Your a woman, you have them, use them, lol. Duh!! ;)
Answers: Don't worry about those who are on their high horses. I say, never judge a person till you have walked in their shoes. They have their ghost. Judgmental behavior is for those who have nothing to do, but to judge others, to make themselves feel superior. Anyway, you need to have some time to yourself, understand yourself. Can he prove he's changed? I have been where your at. It's not easy. Do what you feel to be right. But please, don't just jump back into a relationship with your husband, prove to him You have changed, and that you will no longer except less than the best. You deserve that. Go slow, take your time, test the waters, so to speak. If he has changed, then it will show, even if your not living together. People can change, if they have a good enough reason to. To find the real compatibility, you would have to do their total chart. Just the Sun Sign doesn't constitute real compatibility. So you have to rely on your instincts. Your a woman, you have them, use them, lol. Duh!! ;)
Neither, that's why you have both a husband and a boyfried, huss.
Do you have any houseplants?
let the sperm blender decide, oh my sory my coment was rude didnt know he was in jail yeah get the D vorce and dont look back ,, why in the heck would toro signs matter at this point.
How can you have a husband AND a boyfriend?! I know it's possible, I mean how 'can' you!!
OK wait one dog on minute here!!!!!!!!!!!!! First of all I knew all you Geminis were crazy!!!!!! But I would say that you husband is way to good for you. Now also does your husband act more like the Virgo of the Leo because that can make a big Difference. But I personally hope that your husband leaves you and you and your Gemini boyfriend have a horrible life together....... Happy holidays.
OK now I fell bad!!!!!!!!!!!! I am very Sorry!!!!
OK but like I was saying before I was mean It depends because Geminis are very out going and spontaneous where Virgos tend to be more quite and reserved. That's why I asked if he was more like the Virgo or the Leo. The Leo will be out going as well but not as much as the Gemini. Now 2 people with the same sign will either love each otherr to death of hate each othe that does not seem to be much middle ground so you just have to way out how you fell about each one. And just one more time I am sorry I jumped to a conclusion and I hope that who ever you pick you guys are happy
If his Traits are more Leo then there is a chance that y'all could work. But knowing what you said about him hitting you and leaving you and your kids I would not go back to him even if you are compatible. I thin you would be setting your self up to be hurt all over again.
Oh baby girl this just keeps getting worse. Leave them both alone..... I know its hard but you can find so much better then both of them.
you deserve NONE! i think i speak for 4 everyone when i say,
YOU SIUT!!!
Maybe you should dump the boyfriend.
Buy a puppy.
Give your husband a few inches and see if he is sincere.
And if he doesn't work out, well at least you won't be along.
Keep the puppy.
Also Merry Christmas!!
I think you need to "lose" both of them and find out why you choose men who are abusive toward women, to be with. It will take a lot of "healing" to get to the root cause. You might not ought to be in a relationship until you get your life straightened out.
Well, both the signs are not compatible.
Compatibility depends on one's own attitude. Being too rigid or not trying to understand the other person's view creates troubles in relationships (and no sun-sign can make it work).
I believe that you should gather your thoughts, go through all those things that made things worse or better, and then find out who you can spend your life with.
Ok, for one thing, I don't think you should be either of them at this time. It sounds like you have a few things that you need to work out in your life first. Either get a DIVORCE from your husbasnd and then spend some time with your (boyfriend) to then decide just what you want to do in your life. I wouldn't be suprised that your problems you are haveing with your boy friend is partly the fact that you are still married!!! Another thing.. just because you ar the same sign as your boy friend doesn't mean that you and he are compatiable! As a matter of fact, you are probably not doing to get along either. We Gemini's have a habit of wanting everything to go our way & it is hard as heck to compromise with our husbands/boy friends. We have a split personality. I you still have feeling for your husband that is why you are still married to him. You just want to have your cake & eat it too and this will just work!
Wildflower summed it up StripperMom,....Get rid of both of them and get a new man!,....Preferably one who doesn't like or want or has gone to prison!,....Stop beating yourself up in this life,If your in a stripping job maybe that is part of the process of erroding your esteem,Maybe a new job would help!?,....Jemmy.
Get rid of both of them! Why would you want to deal with a man that abusive towards the mother of his children and on top of that he is in jail. Dont go back with the bf either is also in jail. Sounds to me like these men are in jail for a reason, they are bad news. Find someone that has respect for you. No good man would physically abuse you and no good man would mentally abuse you by trying to make your life miserable by saying other women are trying to hook up with him. Leave his sorry a** be, he's just insecure with himself so he's trying to drag you down with him!! It doesnt mattter what sign he is, cuz ( I am a gemini also) and my now recent ex is a Libra. They say we are supposed to be compatible but he mentally abused me for almost 2 years until I had enough. He too used to say he could get any woman he wanted. Girl, they just have low self esteem and they just want us to have low self esteem and manipulate us into thinking we cant get anybody better!!! GOod luck I hope you listen to your heart!!!
Hun, I think you should get some therapy and try to work through why you keep choosing toxic relationships. For the sake of your children, avoid both men.