Question for virgo men:?!
Question: I know you guys are turtle slow in a relationship--but GEEZ, HOW SLOW??
Answers: I know you guys are turtle slow in a relationship--but GEEZ, HOW SLOW??
I believe she was asking virgo men, well if you want things to move faster you'll have to open up completely, Virgos are intellectual people so they know when they will do what so he probably has planned the relationship out, just open up to him tell him everything all he wants is to know you and to be close to you, and if you want things to move faster just tell him, and he will jump on board and go faster, a virgo is a trust worthy honest person, if your open your relationship will be limitless.
VIRGO MAN:
Time is precious for Virgo man and if you make him wait, he will consider that as an insult. He hates to hear criticism and hates to be criticize. If he is criticizing other people, then he must be influenced by other Zodiac. He is and he likes to be a perfectionist. He always think he is doing the right and appropriate thing , and often he thinks he makes no mistake. He is a bright guy and could accept comments if he thinks it can improve himself. He is the type who well adjusted to make changes.
He will spent money carefully and spent it worthwhile. He will only extravagant for his personnel pleasure only. He is quite romantic, a type of guy who can drive 100 miles just to tell you how much he misses you. If he does not care about you, he will not even spent a dime to call you locally. Long distant special low rate call is also out of the question.
He hates rough and crude people. His woman has to be clean and dress well. He inspects any thing in details beside being a perfectionist, so you could be lying in your bikini with a perfect figure and he can suddenly comments you about your big feet. If you gain 2 pounds , he may comments you are getting too fat. Before going out with this kind of guy, look at yourself head to toe in the mirror and ask yourself if you are really and entirely ready. Unless he dates a model, then he will have less comments.
He is neat and tidy, so his life always in a schedule, a fix time to lunch, the same time to go home. He is well knowledge about food and conscious about nutrition, so you won't see this guy eating a junk food, or strange and exotic food for sure.
You will see him in social events or party if only necessary. He is gifted with acting, so if he says he can not go out with you because he is sick, then you will belief him. He is a hard to please when it comes to what to eat, how to work, what kind of a woman to date. He always neat and tidy all the times, even if he is in the army, he will be the cleanest soldier in the camp. He likes to speak properly with no slang. He hates laziness and lazy people. He always act like a boring mature adults, but getting to know him , you will know he has his own charm.
He always see things clearly, so he is not the type to be blinded by love. He is a kind and cool guy, but if constantly irritate with rudeness, ignorant, or stupidity then he will show you that he is annoyed. You may see a guy in this Zodiac dress up in an old shirt and old Jean, but if you look carefully, you will see that his hair is neat and unconsciously he will touch his hair a lot. His desk is always neat and if he sees small scrap paper on the floor, he will pick it up or put it in the basket.
People may think he is selfish, because when he says "No", he really means it. Any favor asked , he will help but always in his own limit. The more he see faults in others, the less he wants people to see his. If you want him to change his faults, try to tell him gently or he could take it as an insult.
He wants love that comes with quality, so he only has a few loves in his life. Woman's trick will not work with him. If he breaks up with a woman, he will also try to avoid all her friends and her environments too. He is very picky and every breaking up, he will be double careful next time.
He can sweep woman with his charm, but he likes to keep his relationship like a friend. He likes a sincere self confident woman, neat and clean, perfect and tidy. A real two "P" , picky and perfectionist Zodiac.
Well, I am a Virgo female, but I am the same way in relationships.
It takes Virgos months (aka long enough to see if we really trust you and want to give you our all in the relationship) to actually open up and feel comfortable with a potential partner. Now, when I say months, this really depends on the person. As an example, it took my first boyfriend (now, mind you, this was a long time ago) almost 4 months just to get me to go on a date with him, let alone become his girlfriend, and I can't tell you how many times I got dumped by boyfriends for being boring or shy.
Virgos have trust, rejection, and fear of commitment issues that more often than not are the main factor that halts any prospective relationship that may arise.
If you really do dig this Virgo guy, you will have to remain patient......and I know what your thinking.......I have to be more patient than I already am.........BUT, patience, in my opinion, is the key to a relationship with a Virgo (well.........patience, as well an out-going sense of humor, honesty, a loving and nurturing attitude and oh yeah, good food...lol).
On the other hand, if you are getting bored with him, let him go now. Do not string him a long any more than you have to, because that, in a sense, damages the Virgo more mentally, than a broken heart would.
Sorry for the long post, I have a tendency to do that....lol.
If you don't mind me asking, what is your sign?
So, your a Cap, one of a Virgo's best love signs. One of my best friends and roommates of over almost 4 years is a Capricorn. When we first started hanging out, I was extremely shy with her. It took ALOT of "sarcasm" on her part...lol....and lots of communication on her part to finally get me to open up. Luckily, she is very outgoing, which seems to be a trait with Caps, so I'm sure you fall along those lines. Nowadays, there is not a moment when we don't laugh or joke with each other. All in all, you should do what a Cap is so well at, talk, talk and talk and talk more, but with each time, try to get a more upfront response from him. Don't just let him say "umm, yeah, that's cool". Us Virgos are soooo well at that and if somebody gives us the opportunity to continue to do that, we will! Try to joke with him as much as possible. Heck, even give him some booze....Virgos are always good drinking buddies and booze tends to calm a Virgos nerves.
Good luck. I hope I helped some what!
i am so slow that i have only had one kiss. me and my gf tried but it ended up half lips-half cheek
hey virgo men..... don't step on the break!
LOL turtle slow.... =)
Just make a move, if not give him up.
I'm Virgo. FOOooooooooooL. and I'm not that slow in relationship..
i ask straight question if you love me or not and I'm very funny too... And it true i only have few love in my life... oh well.. WHO CARES EHHEHEHEHHHE