Cancer male Pisce female long lost loves reunite now he wants to back off please!
Question: I recently rekindled a relationship after 15 years with my ex bf. Of course we both have our own lives, I had just recently come out of a relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. But he has been very evasive about his life only to tell me he had a room-mate (female). Because, I have never been to his home, I wanted to know if he and his room mate were an item, he indicate that she'was his room-mate and shared the bills. The reason that I was asking was because I wanted to know my emotional boundaries, so that I could keep my feelings in check. Because I just lost my ex to another man, I don't want to get into a relationship with someone who is involved with someone else. We had an argument and I I lashed out and said wow, my ex bf is with a man, and you possibly have a wife/gf. He angrily replied well what are you going to do about it. I replied maybe I should end it....He then replied that he's going to backoff from me. Was this an admissino of guilt. Am I being irrational?
Answers: I recently rekindled a relationship after 15 years with my ex bf. Of course we both have our own lives, I had just recently come out of a relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. But he has been very evasive about his life only to tell me he had a room-mate (female). Because, I have never been to his home, I wanted to know if he and his room mate were an item, he indicate that she'was his room-mate and shared the bills. The reason that I was asking was because I wanted to know my emotional boundaries, so that I could keep my feelings in check. Because I just lost my ex to another man, I don't want to get into a relationship with someone who is involved with someone else. We had an argument and I I lashed out and said wow, my ex bf is with a man, and you possibly have a wife/gf. He angrily replied well what are you going to do about it. I replied maybe I should end it....He then replied that he's going to backoff from me. Was this an admissino of guilt. Am I being irrational?
its over so why does it matter now? He was just defending himself against attack..
That reads like half a pound of gibberish, but I think you should reconsider rekindling things with exes. They are exes for a reason! Secondly, if you've just come out of an LTR, then HELLO! REBOUND!!! I can smell the burning rubber from here.