Virgo how can i change my self from been a door mat?!
Question: Your gonna have to start hurting peoples feelings the way they do when they treat you like a doormat!
Answers: Your gonna have to start hurting peoples feelings the way they do when they treat you like a doormat!
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hey i'm a virgo :P
you always get your blessing for being that door mat and your life will always be successful so that's the least of your worries.
get married to a wimp!
From one doormat to another, its all a question of self-esteem & assertiveness training so my counsellor keeps telling me, what she does'nt tell me is how to obtain these skills & put them into practice ?? Hope you find out,good luck.
Look to your rising sign, moon and your mars signs. Read the good qualities they have and work toward encompassing those into your personality. That ability is within you, you have only to start accessing it.
Your friends who have been used to having a doormat will find it hard at first to accept the 'new' you, and may try to put you back into your old role. Smile when you say you're so sorry but you really don't have time to...... Don't feel compelled to explain why you can't. If pressed, always answer a question with a question. Why is it so important for you to know? Don't you think I would share that with you if I really wanted to? They'll get the idea.
No one is going to stop liking you because you exert your own will.
Remember, Rome wasn't built in a day, and if you can change just one thing at a time, then you can change.
Good Luck!
You're not a door mat, just too self-critical.
You can change your sign it's who you are
You could stop being so cynical. Or maybe grow thicker skin.