Who, in your opinion, is actually more immature Cancer or Gemini?!
Question: I think this would definitely have to do with the different sign positions in your chart. Like, no lie, DEF-i-nite-ly. BUT still, I would like to know everyone's general opinion from what they've seen in their experiences with others.
Take care.
BTW: I'm a cancer :)
I will give you my honest opinion. I have talked to many Geminis who have gone out with Cancers after having a crush on them only to find out that "they were just too immature for me and was just an insecure person who wanted to be pampered." It's been said many Cancers are insecure. I don't know if I agree with that b/c I can't see into their minds. But, in my opinino, insecurity doesn't necessarily make someone immature; It's only immature demands and actions which show that think a person thinks they are the big baby of the world and that you deserve everything which would show you to be an immature person. Basically I see immaturity equivalent to being spoiled.
Answers: I think this would definitely have to do with the different sign positions in your chart. Like, no lie, DEF-i-nite-ly. BUT still, I would like to know everyone's general opinion from what they've seen in their experiences with others.
Take care.
BTW: I'm a cancer :)
I will give you my honest opinion. I have talked to many Geminis who have gone out with Cancers after having a crush on them only to find out that "they were just too immature for me and was just an insecure person who wanted to be pampered." It's been said many Cancers are insecure. I don't know if I agree with that b/c I can't see into their minds. But, in my opinino, insecurity doesn't necessarily make someone immature; It's only immature demands and actions which show that think a person thinks they are the big baby of the world and that you deserve everything which would show you to be an immature person. Basically I see immaturity equivalent to being spoiled.
ok, my big sis is a gemini n my little sis is a cancer. n i will say though they r 11 yrs apart my little cancer sis is more mature than my gemini sis.
gemini but theyre fun and will grow up someday...my husbands son is Gemini and wants to be a minister!
Cancers are mature and grounded. Geminis are immature and childish.They think they're still in high school, no matter what their age.
I actually disagree with what you said about insecurity being a sign of being spoiled. 'Spoiled', has nothing to do with insecurity. I mean, I am anything but spoiled, but at times I will admit I am a bit insecure. Mainly when it comes to my feelings because I see my emotions as a sign of weakness. And so having them or expressing them can make me feel a bit insecure about my strength.
Someone being sheltered and being insecure makes since... But at the same time the parents may not have sheltered the child and he/she is simply shy, and/or finds it hard to trust someone. And finding it hard to trust strangers is not a bad thing. Not at all.
But anyways. To actually answer your question, I would say it'd have to be Gemini. Geminis are very...'confused' by their emotions, and find it hard to understand them and are even afraid of them. So they joke around a lot and like to stay as kids 'cause growing up means they have to be serious. And in some ways, in-touch with their emotions.
Commitment in relationships is hard for them, and if you can't commit to someone in a romantic way like a Cancer can, I would call that being a bit immature. I think because my mind goes straight to immature jerks in high schools, who go from girlfriend to girlfriend in a matter of months. Commitment, I would say is a mature thing, ya know? Even a norbal thing to do, which would have everything to do with being mature.
So i would say Gemini is a lot more immature than Cancer.
Geminis hands down.
im not sure, who is more immature in this sense. but ill say the gemini.
everybody is immature at some sense i.e. mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually. i know i am. but neither do i go around claiming that i am matured in any of my sentences. as i speak, im improving myself and opening to new ideas of life and the people that i meet.
if one thinks he or she is fully matured, one is a self made fool of themselves and only to themselves.
"they were just too immature for me and was just an insecure person who wanted to be pampered."
next time you meet this person again, ask him "so, why couldnt YOU HANDLE to give a lil pampering, while thy speaketh being o' maturity and o' secured one?
here's some free 'scapegoat excuses' provided by astrology powered up by lop sided interpretations of life experiences. "cancers are too emotional for me....too clingy for me....too moody for me....." i'll take it alll that i want when i cant bring forth my own weaknesses as it'll make me look soo immatured!! *pun intended*
both can b immature so its equal
Gemini... but then also they are very mature as well
to be honest, anyone who believes in astrology is immature. its not real. its made up. you cant be seriously into this? there is no truth in it. if youve ever taken an astrology class you would know that there is one sign missing from all of those astrology books and therefore with that all of the other signs are inaccurate. meaning your not really a cancer your another sign. and the signs came from constellations people saw in the sky :)