Is this gemini gone?!
Question: Once a gemini guy starts ignoring you is that the end? we had some wonderful times but it got kind of awkward when we were going to be intimate...I kind of felt rejected even thought he was aroused but he wanted me to stay... I felt too weird so I left. Anyways he hasn't called me since and I've sent him two emails which I think he might have deleted. My question is... Do you think he'll ever try to contact me or has he moved on? Even if we can't be romantically involved I would love to remain friends with him as he is an awesome person but it seems like he's blocked me out. Do geminis come out of this phases or should I just leave it alone and move on? I've never know anyone that can flip the switch like that we got along so great and now he's completely ignoring me...Is this a gemini trait?
Answers: Once a gemini guy starts ignoring you is that the end? we had some wonderful times but it got kind of awkward when we were going to be intimate...I kind of felt rejected even thought he was aroused but he wanted me to stay... I felt too weird so I left. Anyways he hasn't called me since and I've sent him two emails which I think he might have deleted. My question is... Do you think he'll ever try to contact me or has he moved on? Even if we can't be romantically involved I would love to remain friends with him as he is an awesome person but it seems like he's blocked me out. Do geminis come out of this phases or should I just leave it alone and move on? I've never know anyone that can flip the switch like that we got along so great and now he's completely ignoring me...Is this a gemini trait?
speaking from my exp with gemini males, they never ignore you, it would be more correct to say, they've occupied themselves with someone or something else, depending on what they need at that moment. and i dont think geminis have phases, what more to even be in one. if he's not answering your calls, replying your emails, thats highly because he's confused himself, he's not sure what actions to take next since the former had hurt him (you left him when he was aroused= beaten, swollen and now bruised ego). give him some time to heal. and maybe soon, you can try talkin things out to him. well, give it a try but dont put too much hope on it.
if that doesnt work, move on, walk on straight, dont look back. (before soon, you'll see your gemini at the doorstep with a bouquet of roses...). =P
u just described my ex bf gemini to a tee...he is so like this...your beau will come back when you least expect it...trust me...gems never go away forever...
He could be embarassed because you left after he wanted you to stay. It was a blow to his ego. I'm not sure you can gain back his trust.
Gemini's are mutable by nature, and move on quickly. He's also hurt. I think he is gone. It might have been better if you had stayed.
I'm sorry, but you will probably have to consider it an experience to be learned from.
Good luck!
I'm sorry that's happened. But, yeah, that's the way it usually is. When it's over, it's over.
stop calling him--he'll call. trust me, it's their way--wacky i know.
It depends on the gemini.. geminis just get bored really quick and love variety and exploring, so... they may get distracted from time to time, but I don't think they'll completely forget you.
Edit: bahjij6, you must've been played one too many times by a gemini huh?