Scorpio female and Sag male?!
Question: My boyfriend (who just asked me to marry him) is a Sag and I am a Scorpio. A lot of the things I have read say we are not really compatible. What do you think?
Answers: My boyfriend (who just asked me to marry him) is a Sag and I am a Scorpio. A lot of the things I have read say we are not really compatible. What do you think?
Im a scorpio woman as well my last relationship was with a saggitarius man we were together for two years to be honest with you i have had past serious relationships as well but with this saggitarrius i experienced true love an amazing love and feeling for one another we didnt even have to explain ourselves about our emotions the love was just there and the reason i think we went wrong was plainly my fault because us scorpios tend to have major mood swings and bad tempers and saggitarius are always in good moods and good humor and i would always give him such a hard time i dont know i he tolerated my mood swings but at the end of the two years he became rebelious with me and changed and was not putting up with me anymore i lost control over him and my relationship, we have been split up 7 months now and i know he is my true love and he knows im his but his pride or my pride will not let us be anymore but now that all thes months have past i realized where it went wrong and where i went wrong and if i could go back and do it again i would change my atittude and temper towards him because i learned no matter how much someone loves you that doesnt mean they are not capable of leaving you for our mistakes, so be calm with that scorpio temper and mood swings and treat this saggitarius with respect and as a friend unless he is mean to you if you know what i mean, this was the best relationship i ever had and maybe i will always remember it but enjoy him while you can and only you know if he is your soul mate or not.. anyone can work it out even if not compatible on a astrology way
I think people shouldn't put too much faith into astrology. If you love each other, and you get along well, then you're compatible. If you fight a lot and spend more time angry with each other than happy with each other, then you're not. Astrology is more for entertainment than anything else.
I think the only person that can answer this question is you.If you love this man you will marry him and if you don't you won't marry him.It's up to you.
Scorpio Woman & Sagittarius Man
This match is pretty much doomed to failure from the start. You two are complete and total opposites when it comes to relationships and life. He is a wild and free adventurer who loves to constantly be hopping from one experience to the next. You like to have a routine and stick to the things you know you already enjoy. He also hops from girl to girl, which will make you insane with jealousy. The Sagittarius boy does not want to settle down, especially in his teens. To him, committing to one girl is the same as giving up on life. He will take off at the first sign of real love, and he'll flee from responsibility. Meanwhile, you need someone who can give you security, loyalty and faithfulness. You won't find it in this guy. And he'll get annoyed that you're trying to "push him" into something more serious that he wants. A poor match for the both of you. ( Source: Jellybean's Astro-Soulmate Guide )
Scorpio girl loves Sadge boy's wide-eyed wonder with the world. Just remember that not everyone is as low profile as you, and Mr. Sadge will almost be your polar opposite in the secrecy department. He doesn't mean to kiss and tell….it's just him!
Scorpio & Sagittarius:
Sagittarius will bring the issue of money to Scorpio's attention. Scorpio will be mesmerized and party all night long with Sagittarius, but when the fun is over and the sun comes up, Scorpio will be left paying the bill. This is a so-so sort of relationship. The Sagittarius is too freedom loving to get into a deep and possessive relationship, the kind the Scorpio is famous for. Scorpio is dominant by nature, but Scorpio will have trouble keeping their Sagittarian partner under control. Sagittarius is open, talkative and casual about relationships. Scorpio wants Sagittarius at home, Sagittarius wants to roam. Mutual distrust is easy here.
Love & Blessings
Milly
Thanks for your story Babye.............I'm a Sagittarius woman with a Scorpio man now for almost 2 yrs. I agree that the mood swings and temper is quite a challenge for us Sags to tolerate and handle. There's mutual love, respect and understanding between us that goes deeper than the surface. We've learned a lot from each other and it continues and progresses with time. We have accepted the bad and good in each other, realize that we're similiar in many ways, but just deal with things differently. We balance each other out with our weaknesses and strenghts. We have come to see that we need each other to balance ourselves out. It takes work and effort, but if you both deem that it's true love and worth it, then the power is with you. He cares for me like no other man has ever and I've had serious long-term relationships in the past. I give him what no other woman has and he's had his share............I've learned how to tolerate his mood swings (by being supportive and respectful, but not taking it personally), to give him his space to think and be alone with his thoughts, when he's angry I know how to manage it......The key is communication..........talk and be honest. Never give up on real love...........it can work and you two can overcome those obstacles. I was stubborn and consider myself strong, therefore, I refused to give up on him even though I was put through the ringer in the beginning.........but his love, loyalty and devotion was my reward. He soon realize that I wasn't going anywhere.......
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Sorry, I was just imagining a Sagittarius making a commitment. Something so rare you can't help but laugh when you imagine it. Not to say that Sagittarians usually don't commit - I was seeing a Sagittarius man years ago, and he simply told me he would marry me if we were still together after a year. And me - the Scorpio - ran 11 months into the relationship.
If you let me explain this surprising turn of events, it might clear a few things up for you.
First of all, that Sagittarius ex of mine, had Taurus rising. Which means he had Scorpio descendant. With that axis there is more chance of making a commitment. Next to that he had a stellium of planets - in Sagittarius - in the 8th house. The house of Scorpio. Scorpio and Taurus are both known to make lasting commitments, probably the most lasting ones than any other typical sign of the zodiac - even Libra can't match up to Scorpio's and Taurus's loyalty and dedication.
Now, as I mentioned before, I'm the Scorpio. With the description I gave on Scorpio in relationships just above, you would expect me to be committing, loyal and dedicated. But I've mentioned before that I'm neither of them. In Fact, I am a commitment phobe and tend to have quite a roving eye. And I value my freedom. So what went wrong here? Well... My rising is in Sagittarius, which is very freedom loving and in general Sagittarius can't make a commitment because they're already commited to higher learning and traveling. Apart from my rising, there are 4 planets in Sagittarius in the 1st house, and whichever planet is in the 1st house, it manifests in your character more obviously than any other planet in any other house. So all my Sagittarius planets are *very* prominent and always with me, whereas for example my Mars in the 2nd house can be tucked away every now and again. This makes me typically Sagittarian and yes, I am in fact more committed to higher learning and philosophy, and traveling and being adventurous (hence my new nickname...) than the general Scorpio.
What you would have noticed now, is that signs are influenced by the rest of their chart. So a Sagittarius with loads of planets in another sign, will not necessarily act like a typical Sagittarius - in fact, they will not act like a typical Sagittarius at all! Also Scorpios can have such influence.
Put this to your situation and chances are very likely that either one of you, or both of you have planets and a rising in different signs.
In general, Scorpio and Sagittarius are too different to be compatible. But in this situation, where the influence of a sign can shift from the sun sign to, say... the next sign, a Scorpio and Sagittarius *can* very well be compatible, simply because the Sagittarius has more influence from Capricorn or Scorpio which obviously both goes along great with Scorpio, or other signs (depends on the moon and the rising and mars, of course), or the Scorpio has an influence from a sign that is compatible with Sagittarius.