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Question: So I apparently I hurt & disrespected a Scorpio w/o even knowing that I did so. He stoped talking to me b/c he said he's upset .... now when I asked if he's still upset he said, "I don't know anymore." Should I keep trying to talk to him or just give him his space. When I didn't call for 1 month he said that I didn't miss him, but in reality I was dying to talk to him. He has a great amount of self control so I know even if he's dying to talk to me he won't b/c he's such a macho guy. What to do & what is he REALLY feeling? Seems to me like he doesn't care ne more


Answers: So I apparently I hurt & disrespected a Scorpio w/o even knowing that I did so. He stoped talking to me b/c he said he's upset .... now when I asked if he's still upset he said, "I don't know anymore." Should I keep trying to talk to him or just give him his space. When I didn't call for 1 month he said that I didn't miss him, but in reality I was dying to talk to him. He has a great amount of self control so I know even if he's dying to talk to me he won't b/c he's such a macho guy. What to do & what is he REALLY feeling? Seems to me like he doesn't care ne more

If he said "I don't know anymore" (ie: I want to be with you, but you have to make it happen) and got upset that you didn't call him for so long, then obviously he wants to be with you. He's just majorly testing you.

Call him. Hound him. Annoy the hell out of him, even. Yes, it will annoy him, and yes, he'll probably stop answering your calls, and yes, he might yell at you. But secretly, he'll love the commitment and, even if it annoys him initially, in a matter of days or weeks, he'll accept that you actually care.

It's a mind-game... don't know what you actually did or how deserved it is. It sounds severe, but... it's a Scorpio thing, unfortunately. We suck sometimes. I'm willing to bet the intent isn't malicious or to hurt you... just to make you prove that you care and don't want to hurt him.

Scorpios like being left alone... but they like being able to choose when they're left alone. If he wants to be alone, he won't answer your calls. If he just wants you to prove yourself, then he'll secretly relish in you hounding him. Tell him you're dying to talk to him. Tell him any overtly emotional confessions you have... He'll love them, even if he pretends he doesn't (which he probably will). Basically, he wants to throw yourself in front of the figurative train. So... do so as much as you can and deem necessary without giving up your own self-respect and dignity (ie: be honest with him and yourself... if you're angry at him too, then tell him... calling us Scorpios on our BS isn't as dangerous as most people think is, well, at least not if we actually care about the person), as that wouldn't be good for either of you in the long run.

But he definitely cares. Scorpios are VERY emotional but, as you said, have amazing self control... If he didn't care about you, he wouldn't be wasting his time or acting like such a baby about this.

EDIT: Oh yeah... also, as for what the first person said... Scorpio's actually prefer to be pursued, despite how it may seem. If you start dating other guys to *lure* him back, you can be pretty certain it'll backfire and you'll lose every last ounce of trust he has for you, and thus you'll lose him forever. Your job is now to do damage control... not to cause more damage (ie: if the problem he has is that he doesn't think you care, then doing something to SHOW you don't care isn't the best idea). Scorpios want complete devotion... if that doesn't seem like a definite possibility, they won't waste their time fighting for it. Reverse-psychology and such things don't work on Scorpios... At best, they'll call your bluff. At worst, they'll never speak to you again.

What sign are you?

He thinks you will hurt him again. He is playing with you now to see how you react. If you tell him you were dying to talk to him, he'd enjoy that.

I think Scorpios like to persue rather than be persued. You will get him back faster if you start dating other guys. He will come looking for you if he still has feelings for you. You will then have to decide if you want to give up your new man for him. The Scorpio has been hurt by you. He won't forget. He may burn you if you get back together with him.

A disrespected Scorpio is unpredictable and dangerous. I think it would be wiser to find a new Scorpio and forget this one. Learn from your mistakes and move on.

Scorpio men are very emotional and do get over thing , they for sure like to play hard to get to especially when they have been hurt, always remember hurt people hurt people.
They are also very mysterious people,but yet so romantic and sexual beings I too am with a scorpio.

It really doesn't matter if he is a scorpio or not he's a typical mach man. He wants you to break down to fall under his will. He is not a man of words so he is trying to send sublimal messages. He probably wanted you to give him space then again he was not expecting you to leave him a month's worth so instead of showing how excited he was to hear from you he tried to make you feel bad. He cares he is just not mature enough to show you so he turns it around to cover himself up so the best thing to do is fall under his doing until you have his trust and flip the cards back on him so you are not the one feeling like a fool

I know what you mean because i have been in your position and i must say that it's hard to get that trust/respect back from a Scorpio...but not impossible!!!
So if you really like this guy you must apologies and let you guards down because Scorpios like to be the ones who control the relationship.
Good luck :D

scorpio guys never says sorry they don't like the words ... forget him move on

On The Radio said it best!!! In fact, right on the money!!!! It is not impossible if he cares about you and has feelings for you. Trust me.......I know.......I'm with a Scorpio man. He's sensitive and emotional, therefore, he's hurt by whatever happened and that he considers may be your doing. They don't like to be disrespected or have their feelings/ego hurt. Don't give up or ignore him, then he will be convinced that you truly don't care and have no intention of being loyal and committed to him. Not a good way to get him back at all. If you put in genuine effort, he will realize it and give you another chance. Scorpio men seem tough and in control all the time, but they have big hearts and feel a lot.



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