Why is it that when I am interested in someone, the minutes seem like hours?!
Question: What can I do to make sure I don't freak him out or smother him?
he's a virgo
Answers: What can I do to make sure I don't freak him out or smother him?
he's a virgo
Don't fret, a Virgo would love to be smothered but they won't show it. They are tough til it gets really tough then they breakdown. They appreciate being loved and reassured and supported. I am surprised that a cappy would actually be willing to do this?! My impressions with cappies that I know are that they are sweet and generous but always hold back and reserved about their feelings. Excellent humor though. I should know, I am a Cancer, the opposite sign of caps. My best friend is a Virgo. Ive known him for 9+ years and I've always wondered why this person is so stable-status quo. I flew over and visited him last week and he broke down into tears with all the loneliness, feelings of misfortunes, etc. Ah they are humans after all. They are the master of concealing emotions but it always transfer to mental nervousness. Please by all means. Smother him!!!!!!
i'm going through the same thing....the way i see it, just totally be yourself! thats who you want him to love right! not some fake person pretending....it's better to find out know while your just interested than later when your hopelessly in love, causing a melt down. be yourself!
It always seems like hours just because it feels so special. Act like yourself, if you feel like you are starting to slip do something to keep yourself up and natural. Try to change the topic or tell him something true. ITS NOT BAD!!! Personally, I would want those minutes to seem like DAYS!!
*shurgs* same here girl!
I simple advice: Just be yourself...never pretend, show your true YOU......