Is it a common trait for Capricorns not to initiate outings?!
Question: I am a Virgo dating a Capricorn and we always have a gang of fun when we get together, but I initiate all our plans.
There is nothing that I have suggested that he doesn't disagree too, down to restaurant choices. Sometimes I really want him to choose something for us to do or a place for us to eat so I know exactly what he likes and he never does. I don't care how many times I tell him "I don't care what we do or where we go, you choose," he still won't decide, but instead will give me three choices to pick from. We have been dating for over a year and in this timeframe he has only chosen one thing for us to do. He took me to a very lavish restaurant by the waterfront that I had never been too and had not heard of prior to him taking me. I appreciate the gesture, but I don't want this to blow up in my face at a later time by him telling me I dominated all our plan making. Is this a typical Capricorn trait? Is he just not into coming up with things to do?
Answers: I am a Virgo dating a Capricorn and we always have a gang of fun when we get together, but I initiate all our plans.
There is nothing that I have suggested that he doesn't disagree too, down to restaurant choices. Sometimes I really want him to choose something for us to do or a place for us to eat so I know exactly what he likes and he never does. I don't care how many times I tell him "I don't care what we do or where we go, you choose," he still won't decide, but instead will give me three choices to pick from. We have been dating for over a year and in this timeframe he has only chosen one thing for us to do. He took me to a very lavish restaurant by the waterfront that I had never been too and had not heard of prior to him taking me. I appreciate the gesture, but I don't want this to blow up in my face at a later time by him telling me I dominated all our plan making. Is this a typical Capricorn trait? Is he just not into coming up with things to do?
We don't suggest much because we want you to be able do what is going to make you happy. We don't care where we are as long as you're happy and we get to be in your company... nothing tops that as far as I'm concerned.
For the most part Capricorns would rather be working than having fun, and don't spend much time thinking about "outings." His apathy as far as making decisions could have to do with something else in his chart.
You can get his chart done for free at astro.com
Too long, bored.
I am a Capricorn and I guess that's just a trait because I never make plans. When we want to do something I can never decide what to do so I always let everyone else make the plans and I go along with them.
Capricorn is a cardinal sign, so they are very capable of initiating action. However, we are more than the sum total of our sun sign.
We are our moon sign (our emotional body), our Venus sign (what we appreciate), our Mars sign (what we will fight for), and our rising sign, how we express ourself.
Your capricorn may have a shy rising or moon sign.
Then again, caps are pretty smart. They are called the mountain goat, because they will climb the ladder of success using ideas that have been created by others.
Perhaps you are such a good planner (virgo is!) that your cap friend is content to let you do the planning.
Go to astro.com to draw up free charts and see how the two of you relate to one another.
Enjoy!
Alex
it depends,, ive had capricorn friends before and i planned everything..one time one wanted to be like me but then as soon as i said one thing she didnt like, she was gone,,
I only read the question, but not the speech... NOOOO they are planners! everytime I hang out w one they have a schedule/plan! but I do have to admit the capricorn guys I have been w have always let me change it or have my way... so they are caring and want you to have a good time...
I can answer this....I have been datinga cap mean for about 3 years...
Its funny because I go threw the same thing...
Well my capps problem is that he does not want to suggest something I will laugh at or he might feel like you probably will not like his suggrestion...
What i did was just basically asked him y???
what does he like to do for fum?
Is there anything he feels like doing?
Sure enough he started opening up...
but of course he would ask "is itok with you"?
So Just try ...they are just so lay back about everything(Thats a good thing) !