How do I keep my Sagittarian's interest?!
Question: I'm a cancer. Very easy going and fun. but by virtue of my sun, I do get deep feelings and melancholy but I hide it well. I really like my Sadge -- very succinct but sweet and also genuine. I don't want to lose this Sadge but nothing lasts forever. What are the odds that we will keep this one alive? My Sadge told me that I am a huge turn on. Help!!! My moon is in Libra, Venue and Mars in Taurus, Asc Capricorn, Mercury and Jupiter in Gemini
Answers: I'm a cancer. Very easy going and fun. but by virtue of my sun, I do get deep feelings and melancholy but I hide it well. I really like my Sadge -- very succinct but sweet and also genuine. I don't want to lose this Sadge but nothing lasts forever. What are the odds that we will keep this one alive? My Sadge told me that I am a huge turn on. Help!!! My moon is in Libra, Venue and Mars in Taurus, Asc Capricorn, Mercury and Jupiter in Gemini
Hi, a Sag girl here.
I've dated several cancer males in my life and am now with one for 6 years. He loves me to death! We were so attracted to each other at first. We fell head over heals in love with each other. Sags love your nurturing, caring and loving nature! You've won her heart so that's good but to keep her interests is another matter! It's very very difficult to keep a sag interested. We get bored easily... and once we're bored with you, you no longer mean a thing to us. Sad but true.
As a typical sag that I am, there are 5 main things that I need my partner to show me, they are:
1. TRUST- He needs to give me the freedom I need and trust me. Sags are very adventurous, you can't tie her down. You’ll suffocate her and she'll leave. Give her space and trust her completely, she'll always come back to you. Don't be needy and clingy, if you can't give her that, she'll walk out the door faster before you say "wait"
2. UNDERSTANDING- You have to understand her, what she needs and what she wants in her life. Understand that no matter how much fun she craves, how outgoing she is or how flirty she appears to be, always understand that's her nature! She can't help it! She always shines like stars and gets all the attention, you should NOT be jealous but feel proud of her! Believe her that you're the only one for her! She'll love you dearly!! Don’t ever question her love for you!!
3. RESPECTFUL- Needless to say more, everyone needs to be respected. Respect and support her.
4. LOYALTY- Don't lie to her! She’ll smell you out in a second and she won't like it! Trust me, it's gonna get very nasty if she finds out you lie to her. Be honest and direct! don't play any mind games, she will hate it!
5. MAKE ME HAPPY- Yup! Last but not least, sag girls need someone who can make her happy, make her laugh hard! And laugh at all her jokes!
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You both have a good sense of humor and strong feelings, being Cancer and Sagi, so that'll hold you together. I think it could last.
Ask her to plan a party or a trip. If it's a party, you cook and let her do the rest. If it's a trip just make sure she doesn't book a world tour. Keep her active.
All your air signs get along great with the Sag fire. The earth and water signs would have more of a problem.
But your melancholy cancer really should not cause any problem because your emotional moon is libra (air sign) and your mercury (communication) in gemini(air sign). Just remember, there are lots of ways to show you care. In caring use Libra's fairness and Gemini's wit and you will keep her interest.
sagittarians and cancer are attracted to each other and to keep sagittarians intersted is to be optimistic and having fun . sagittarians love having fun and never make them feel enclosed like a prison or else they'll go away . they don't like anyone trying to reduce their freedom . they don't like being bossed around too much and hate snooby people (i think)
im sagittarius to the bone.. and imma tell ya just a few things that will keep ya in tip top shape with this chica.
do anything just dont bore her... keep her guessing.
try not to pin her down... cuz its like that saying, the tighter u try to hold the sand the more it'll escape...something like that.
and also make her happy by making her laugh... sense of humor is a great thing.. and hey if she's already loving u thats even better.
just make sure she continues and doesnt catch her eye on something else ; ) thats y u gotta keep her guessing!!
otherwise just be urself... believe meeeeee we hate boredom, and need our freedom.. just make sure whats she's up to every now and then.........
have fun.. = )