Why Are Taurus Men So Stubborn? I am Virgo Female.?!
Question: Can anyone tell me how to deal with a Taurus man who really is very very stubborn? He can be the nicest person, then when we get into a disagreement about anything, he will usually avoid me, not call me for days, I am usually the one to give in, when I do give in he is as loving as ever and shows he misses me. This is getting tiring and I am beginning to feel resentful of his pouting and avoiding me, it hurts terribly when he does this.I need advice on what to do to make this behaviour not work for him. I have heard people do what works, so I do need advice and others opinions, especially from people who are stubborn like this or the ones who have been in a similar situation as this. Serious answers only please.
Answers: Can anyone tell me how to deal with a Taurus man who really is very very stubborn? He can be the nicest person, then when we get into a disagreement about anything, he will usually avoid me, not call me for days, I am usually the one to give in, when I do give in he is as loving as ever and shows he misses me. This is getting tiring and I am beginning to feel resentful of his pouting and avoiding me, it hurts terribly when he does this.I need advice on what to do to make this behaviour not work for him. I have heard people do what works, so I do need advice and others opinions, especially from people who are stubborn like this or the ones who have been in a similar situation as this. Serious answers only please.
well let me tell you Im a Scorpio girl and im involved with a tauras guy right now who is exactly how you say your guy is, however by nature we are both stubborn so i stand up to him as well, but he is sooooooooooooo darn stubborn and hardly every see's my point of views.. but however when we do argue i just ignore him as well and i wait for him to see the real deal and look for me or call me and he does, i dont give in to him unless i know i really done wrong or said something bad to him,i know that my tauras guy feels for me because he ends up lookin for me. The tauras man has to really love you or really like you to want to make things work with you and look for you and be calling you to make things better, if he doesnt its because he just doesnt want to take the time to do it.. You need to not do that anymore and stopt looking for him because you will never give him a challenge or he will always know you willl fall to his feet. If you ever get into a dispute or argument with him again and its his fault dont look for him at all, even if it hurts you so much, the reason why is you need to see if he truly cares for you, if he doesnt try to look for you then he was never for you or the one for you because he never tries to look for you and you will need to move on from this because a relationship will never work if only one person is trying to make it work or function that means you are putting in 100percent of yourself in it and he is putting maybe only 15 percent by talking back to you when you always end up looking for him, the guy is always suppose to look for the girl by nature ........ also my brother is a virgo and his girlfriend is a tauras and she is a b***tch with him she takes off on him for days and he looks for her and stuff but she doesnt care and my bro the virgo always ends up giving in to her and she comes back after begging her so much its ridiculous sometimes but he just doesnt listen.... well i hope some of my advice will work for you take care and many blessings and good luck to you in your love life and all ........
Whenever you cave in to him, it only reinforces his behavior, because he knows you'll always give in. Stop giving in to him.
All you have to do is show him that you can deal with his stubbornness by pretending that you wont put up with it. If you let him have his way all the time then you wont get anywhere and you wont be any different from a door mat.
"search" type in sun signs by Linda Goodman... this has got to be the most informative astrological info I have ever read!!!
to me virgos are worse from my experience.. but also birthorder affects us too...my bro is taurus born 3rd and so easygoing..
I think u go on zodiac sign more than on a person nature.The nature of a male is he always thinks he is right he doesnt like to be corrected,as far as women are concerned in his life he knows that if one goes another comes.So stop blaming the zodiac signs.
if u can than dont talk to him when u think what u are doing is right.I know it hurts but if he loves u he will come back to u .
Dont let dictatorship come in your way,because if a male becomes a dictator,then after a few year be prepared for divorce.Good luck dear
This all depends on the person. Not everyone has the traits that are mentioned in their horoscope. Horoscopes are a generalization of most people born under that particular sign.
Because he is a sign of the The Bull.
If you are in love with a Taurus, hold on to your sweetheart -- this is a magical combination. Each of you knows intuitively what makes the other tick, and how to make the other feel safe and secure. Both of you are earth signs, so you are realistic people who value being able to depend on each other. Nothing makes you crazier than relying on your lover and then having him or her fall down on the job. This won't happen with a Taurus. But Taurus do have hot tempers. It takes a lot to get Bulls to see red, but once they do, you won't forget it! Virgos rarely get that worked up, so you could get scared or hurt by such an angry episode. Try to just shrug it off, figuring you had better broach THAT subject some other time!
You will love your Taurus' desire for your affection and his or her love of touch. A Taurus may not say much, but you will be able to feel his or her love. Taurus put a lot of emphasis on romance and courtship -- especially wining and dining. Enjoying meals together will always be part of your relationship because Taurus know how to get the best out of life. They won't squander money in the way a Leo might, because like you, Taurus have a firm grip on reality. You may be concerned that your lover has too great a taste for luxury, for you are content with a no-frills, simple lifestyle. ("Just give me a good laptop, an episode of 'Prime Suspect', some vegetarian lasagna, and I'll be happy," you might say.) Taurus will prove to you his or her resourcefulness with money, though, so you won't need to hide your credit cards or anything like that.
In bed, you will be delighted to discover that your Taurus finds the slow, serene, sensual way you move exciting and intoxicating. The two of you are a perfect erotic pair! Together, you've got red-hot desire plus sweet emotional tenderness. Taurus doesn't soar to spiritual heights the way Pisces does, but because your love is so strong, this won't concern you. You know what good is, and this fits the bill.
But Virgos can't fall in love when they aren't sure they are their partner's one and only. You have to feel the relationship has respect and integrity. You'll have this with your Taurus, who isn't the type to sleep around. In fact, Taurus is just the opposite. If your Taurus decides you are his or her soul mate, he or she won't ogle another cute man or woman ever again. As long as your Taurus has your love, he or she simply doesn't need any other confirmation of his or her sexuality from anybody else -- even when older. As a matter of fact, your Taurus could be more anxious than you are to get married. Virgos like to go slowly when it comes to commitment, to have a chance to think things out thoroughly and carefully. Taurus don't rush decisions on matters of the heart either. But once your Bull is in love with you, a strong possessive streak will develop which will cause your beloved to pop the question sooner rather than later.
You both have found an ideal lover -- so stay close to your Taurus sweetheart!
Oh boy, I could write a book about dealing with Taurus! I've been with one for over 20 years now. In the beginning it was HIS way or the highway. I put up with it and just proved to him time and time again that I would do anything for him within reason. Initially, I think he wanted only for me to do EVERYTHING his way. With time, I think he's started to realize that it cannot be this way without killing who I am as a person. After numerous conversations about this, he finally got the message that what he was doing was showing me that he didn't care.
I don't know if it's age or his caring for me after all these years (maybe a little of both?) but now in his late 30s he's much more considerate. Also, I don't make a big deal out of little things with him. There are times when he's going to be stubborn and instead of giving into him or complaining that I shouldn't have to do things his way only, I'll just pretend like it's no big deal and leave it alone. This way he gets exactly what he wants...but then he'll have to do it himself.
I am a Bull married to a Bull. :))
Taurus men don't like to be MADE to do anything. You will get more out of the Bull by Suggesting or Asking, rather then telling him or her to do this or that. Telling a Bull to DO something is like telling EGYPT to tear down the Pyramids.
Bulls move at their own pace, they set their own pace and stick to it. :) If your BULL gets mad and blows off steam, it is only steam. Bulls are the most passionate sign in the Zodiac, in my opinion. You can bring a Bull to his knees with sweet talk, cuddling and lots of touching.
If he is avoiding you at times, he may just have his mind on his latest bill or how to make more money, since bulls are the MONEY sign. Bulls like stability. Remember, lots of personal attention will get him around. (Trenda)
Hi...I can understand your problem...My husband is a Taurian and I am a libran...My husband is most of the time very stubborn...The solution that I have found is that evenif we had a fight, we never sleep without patch-up...If its my mistake, I simply patch-up...but if its his mistake, (thanks to stubborn), he makes sure that I must talk to him...
What I would suggest is dont say anything if there is a fight in between you...These taurian men are very soft hearted..they only hard from outside...and if its not your mistake, why to bow down infront of him...
Well, the above method had worked for me...
All the best to you...
here's what i got from that website: "Disagreements between these two are few and far between as both signs have a strong practical side to their natures, they are logical, and have a sharp financial ability. Since Taurus loves lots of attention and Virgo loves fussing over someone he loves this could be satisfying to both partners. They are both fond of children and the home and these will play a big part in their lives, demanding and getting their constant attention. While this may sound like the perfect match, with rainbows of happiness around their heads, there are still some drawbacks to the situation. Being human, neither is perfect. Virgo works very hard at a career or even on a domestic chore that Taurus feels he/she could accomplish in half the time with less effort and calls him/her a fuss budget, which does nothing to boost the his/her feelings of self worth it takes to excel in whatever Virgo does. The strong critical streak in Virgos nature could cause a lot of stress and tension for Taurus, as Taurus does not take to having his/her faults held up in front of their noses. It could be the Toreadors red flag! The more evolved Taurean will have learned that the best way to handle this is to simply ignore it. Virgo and Taurus observe certain routines and always play by the rules which by chance coincides with the others moral outlook on life." good luck 8)
Are you sure you don't complain to much because most virgos do complain and Tauruses don't like it on the other hand i doubt if he stops being stubborn because that's not something you can stop doing over night you both need to learn to compromise with each other, one thing i know about the Taurus we don't like to be rushed or told what to do you can sit down and talk to us and suggest things but that's all if you have notice that most Tauruses men or women are controll freaks by nature it's not that he doesn't love you because they love deep but who wants to put up with b.s. is the way they look at it, so by experience if you never gave in he probably would'nt either.
hi,
three things describe a person completely i.e sun sign, moon sign & ascendant. but on broader sense we can consider sun sign
i am also a taurus. taurus symbol is a bull....a lazy, music lover and love to eat. can not harm anybody unless you ping him.
Dont try to rule any taurus, they need some room, yes they are stubborn, but soft by heart.you can be a best friend if you are not try to rule him / her.
If any disagreements comes don't push him hard just park topic for some time, i am sure he will be realize his mistake ( though may be not accept it ).
Hello Fellow Virgo!
I am a Virgo woman who is not dating a Taurus, but I am dating another earth sign, the Capricorn and he is stubborn as well. I don't know if he's as stubborn as the bullheaded Taurus because I have never dated one, but the Goat is in close contention. You must admit though, Virgos are stubborn as well, but not to the degree of a Taurus or Capricorn. At one point his stubborness was so bad that I was considering ending our relationship. I felt like I was spending far too much time coddling him or biting my tongue when he was wrong just to pacify him, but I discovered that was me being stubborn saying what I would and wouldn't do. You know what? My Capricorn NEEDS me to coddle and reassure him just like he needs me to give him space when he's going through something because he likes to figure things out on his own rather than seek me out for his help. Just like I need him to listen to me vent and fuss my discontentment when everyone else says I complain all the time. There is nothing you can do to change this behavior because being stubborn is one of the things that make him who he is. What I found works for us is telling him honestly and sometimes rather bluntly how I feel. What is amazing about these conversations is almost always when we have a disagreement and talk about it, he always thinks I will cancel a date or change my feelings towards him, which is never the case. Yes, he totally exasperates me with his stubborness, but at the end of the day, this is the best relationship I have been in, so if I have to put up with a bit of stubborness at times, it's well worth it. My suggestion if you have not done so already is to express to him how he makes you feel when he behaves this way. When I have done this, my Capricorn is so shocked because he didn't realize that the way he reacts hurts me.
Good luck fellow Virgo and I wish you well!
Taurus-Virgo Compatibility Both are practical and cooperative,realistic and capable. However their emotional nature is not similar.Taurus being emotional and possessive can sometimes smoothen Virgo whose feelings are much under control. Both desire material success and security. Strange as it may seem when two earth elements embrace, this can be a confusing combination. Although they can get on well together, they'll never have a really rich relationship unless they can take a crash course in what makes each other tick.
The problem is that they've got such contrary characters.Those vibrant Virgos are mutable and ruled by Mercury, making them like quicksilver. They'll clash here and there, wanting to experience all the light and shade that life can offer.Taureans, on the other hand, are fixed folk, who are ruled by vivacious Venus, Goddess of love. As far as sex is concerned, the tremendously torrid flame of the Taurean's pulverizing passion may not set light to much more than a spark of the Virgo's fire.