Are you and your mate compatible? What's working or not working in your rela!
Question: I'm Aquarius with Virgo moon, and he's Scorpio with Aquarius moon.
I've never gotten along with someone so well in my life, we can be together almost constantly and not get sick of each other.
We're both very intellectual, I'm studying mathmatical Physics, and he's studying Film; we're both minoring in philosophy. That said, he did start a Computer science/chem degree a few years ago, and I draw a lot, so we both have very scientific/rational as well as creative sides.
I think there's just the right amount of similarity/differences between us.
Neither us fit very well to gender stereotypes.
The communication in the relationship is very open, he's sensitive and understanding, and I understand him too. I could tell him anything, in fact I even told him when I had a short crush on another guy but he knows that he's much more important to me. And he seems to think I'm the most attractive girl around and genuinely appreciates my mind (I cannot be attracted to anyone who's personality I don't admire anyway).
Answers: I'm Aquarius with Virgo moon, and he's Scorpio with Aquarius moon.
I've never gotten along with someone so well in my life, we can be together almost constantly and not get sick of each other.
We're both very intellectual, I'm studying mathmatical Physics, and he's studying Film; we're both minoring in philosophy. That said, he did start a Computer science/chem degree a few years ago, and I draw a lot, so we both have very scientific/rational as well as creative sides.
I think there's just the right amount of similarity/differences between us.
Neither us fit very well to gender stereotypes.
The communication in the relationship is very open, he's sensitive and understanding, and I understand him too. I could tell him anything, in fact I even told him when I had a short crush on another guy but he knows that he's much more important to me. And he seems to think I'm the most attractive girl around and genuinely appreciates my mind (I cannot be attracted to anyone who's personality I don't admire anyway).
I'm asking myself that very question right now. Up until now I would have said yes. But lately I don't know. I think he is more obsessed with making money and working then I am. I thought we were interested in the same things (at least that's what he told me) but his actions speak louder than words. I'm doing some soul-searching this weekend trying to figure out what to do. I want a simple, quiet life and I think he wants a more grander, complicated one. I'm not sure that's the kind of relationship that can work out. Oh I'm a Gemini and my b/f is a Virgo.....hmmm...just noticed another Gemini/Virgo mess....maybe there is a problem with the mix there.....I think I'm too much for this guy too handle
I have no idea if my husband or me are compatible or not. I sometimes wonder why God put the man into my life. I feel like we have nothing in common with each other. He talks too much and does not seem to care about my feelings or anyone's feelings. I am a Virgo and my husband is a Scorpio.
For the most part, yes we are compatible. We both have annoying habits that do bug each other... but we manage to deal with that. Our strengths complement each other and our weaknesses are minimized when we are together...
Self - Male: Virgo (annoying, straitlaced, motivated, supportive)
Otherself - Female: Pisces (artsy, emotional, intuitive, demanding)
Very compatible. Everything works. I am a Virgo (9-11) and he's a Cancer (7-8). It's amazing!
I'm a Sagittarius and my mate is a Leo. I can't complain about anything with our relationship. Were just really compatible on all levels. I have been with him for 5 years and he's still the same person he was when I met him. He understands me like nobody else does. He's weird like me, and so on........ He's just a perfect match for me. We truly feel we are soulmates. He's the typical Leo that loves his attention and can be a bit bossy, but he's very tender and is a hopeless romantic. I'm submissive by nature so it's not a problem for me to have a somewhat dominating man. Leo's are dominating anyway and that goes for the males as well as the females. But yeah, I think me and my guy are very compatible.
Hmmm...
I'm female pisces and he's male cancer.
What works is that our attraction- it's HOT! The other major aspect is our strengths and weakness, which are completely the opposite of each other, so there is a great balance of skills and characteristics. We have a good emotional understanding of each other's feelings and will listen to each other whenever one of us are feeling down. It's a sweet-tempered match because both of us are passionate, pisces loves to serve and lives to spoil and pamper whilst cancer ADORES the attention and lavished affection pisces pours all over him. The attraction is so good that when cancer has his crabby moments, pisces easily adapts and sees right through his tough exterior into what's REALLY bothering him. This is something my boyfriend loves about me, that i'm so unfazed by his moodiness that i just continue on without a hitch. i don't mind leaving him to brood while i go about doing my own thing but not without reassuring him and making it known that i LOVE him.
What doesn't work?? Hmmm..well..at times our different characteristics and interests or taste clash and that's when we have HUGE spats such as, he(cancer) is hopeless at planning and pisces allows herself to rely on him to put things together but cancer can be so emotionally overwhelmed by the whole organising event that everything doesn't turn out right. In the end pisces chucks a HUGE spasm and for next few events plans everything once more while cancer begs for a second chance to redeem himself.
Another annoying thing about our signs and relationship is that, cancer TAKES! They take and take as much as you give..no doubt giving pleases pisces but sometimes pisces gets taken for granted and thats when tears and fears are brought up. Pisces feels overworked and used which is a big mistake to make pisces feel because they'll just stop giving that part of themselves.
Cancer always complains that i have a way of turning the tables in an arguement so that, he is wrong and i am right! I do it without thinking but that's the way i defend myself and somehow, i "turn tables" and put him in the wrong- which pisses of cancer. I can always talk my way out of a fight and turn his own words against him (unfortunately), fights can go on forever but it's usually him who backs down because he hates conflict.
On the whole, we have fights about.....1 to 3 times every two months but that counting HUGE fights. We have couple quarells about stupid tiny things but most of the time, we're forcing down a laugh or smile at what the other one is saying or we just find the other person so cute and irresistible even when they fight, this attraction and chemistry makes us fast forward our fight, so that we can get our hands on each other again. Fights end quickly and passion is hot! Romance is super sweet and spending days and days on end with each other is easy.
I'm a Leo and my boyfriend is a Gemini and we have a very close connection together. We have the same sense of humor and can laugh and talk for hours without running out of things to say, in fact we talk all day because we just like communicating with each other. He's very intuitive and sensative and can usually tell when something is bothering me. He always gives me plenty of attention and adoration that a Leo needs to feel special. I can be very emotional and stubborn but he has come to understand me and has learned to not ignore or run away from my emotionalness but has learned all the ways to soothe me and make me feel better.
We do sometimes have communication problems on my part because I have a hard time opening up and Gemini's are all about communication. That's how they connect with people and he feels disconnected and brushed off when I don't tell him what's on my mind. He is always insecure about the fact that I draw a lot of male attention. Usually those two things bring out the other Gemini twin, the cynical, spiteful one and his words have a harsh sting to them, but I have learned to accept that as how his personality is and give him freedom when that other Twin comes out.
Other than that I think we make a very good couple and are compatible on a lot of different levels.
i just ended relationship w/ gemini guy...i'm a virgo...we were definitely NOT compatible in a lot of ways...we mixed like oil & water...
Haven't found a mate. Not many belief me in my gender issues! Can't say this specifically in question format but can mention my blog can answer it. ca.360.yahoo.com/ddherbals
I don't know if my mate and I are comapatible. Some people say we aren't. I'm a Scorpio and he's a Leo. The only thing that we really have a problem with is that we both want to be in control of the relationship. He's also every stubborn. But I've read that if we can overcome trying to be in control than it can be a lasting relationship. So we'll see.
Yes, me and my boyfriend (who lives with me) are very compatible. We both provide each other with the nurturing and love we both need. We are both open with communication and very loyal to each other. Future plans together are always in the works. We both dislike conflict, and try to avoid it at all costs, but if a conflict does arise, we will discuss it with each other. He satisfies my mind and body, as I would only hope I do for him. He can be very stubborn sometimes on certain beliefs, but that makes me all the more attracted to him. We both like adventure and are both willing to try new things. He is much more outgoing then me, but I like that. With his outgoing quality, he makes me feel comfortable enough with him to open up and share my feelings and dreams with him. We laugh 90% of the time we are together. We both are romantics, and believe in chivalry.
The only issue we do face is I sometimes have a jealousy streak. I do trust him with all my heart, as he trusts me, but this is a long running jealousy trait I have had since I was younger, but the more and more we talk about it with each other, the more at ease I feel about it.
Now, things down the line could always change, but that is a risk I will take, because at the current moment, we are both walking on cloud 9.
I am a Virgo Sun, Libra moon, with Scorpio rising, and he is a Taurus Sun, Libra moon, with Leo rising.
Me and my boy-friend get along. Some things that are working in my relationship hmmm..
1. Trust
2. Love
3. Commitment
Some things that are NOT working in the relationship.....hmm.
1. Long-distance relationship ( kinda hard)
AND he is a Aquarius and I am a Cancer
You're getting just a wee bit personal here . . . not trying to offend you, but if I'd wanted a horoscope reading I'd have gone to a fortune-teller.