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Question: I want to a baby and at the same time i know that we the people will never be ready for a kid even you have money or not.

I want to have a child, i want it for me. the child father will be my boyfriend who i will be marrying but i want the child for me, but i want to raise it with or without a father but the child will have a father which is good too.

I just want to grow with my child, i don't want to be 40 years old and my child is 10 years old, i want to be 40 and my child is at least 18 years old.

I am a college student and have 1 year and half left at the sametime i want to finish school and have a child. I know you will say finish school first but i will do it at the sametime.

are you a single mom? if so what you have to tell me the good and bad.


Answers: I want to a baby and at the same time i know that we the people will never be ready for a kid even you have money or not.

I want to have a child, i want it for me. the child father will be my boyfriend who i will be marrying but i want the child for me, but i want to raise it with or without a father but the child will have a father which is good too.

I just want to grow with my child, i don't want to be 40 years old and my child is 10 years old, i want to be 40 and my child is at least 18 years old.

I am a college student and have 1 year and half left at the sametime i want to finish school and have a child. I know you will say finish school first but i will do it at the sametime.

are you a single mom? if so what you have to tell me the good and bad.

Well, even though I fel the need to wonder aloud why this is in horoscopes, ever whatever.

My advice to you is to wait until you're done with college. It'll be a great deal of stress out of the way before taking on the stress of pregnancy and motherhood. Besides, this will give your relationship with your boyfriend time to develop and hopefully grow closer, and perhaps lend itself to marriage. Not that it's required or anything, but it'll definitely have a huge impact to have that help.

I'm not faulting you in any way for wanting to be a mother. In fact, I think you seem to have a pretty good head on your shoulders. So I still have to, in good conscience, tell you I'd recommend you wait until you're done with college. It will make things a lot easier in the long run for you, and a year and a half won't make that big of a difference in the long run.

Besides, 25 is a good age to have kids, and at 40 they'll be 15. You'll still be ahead of the game.

I admit I'm a bit worried by your stance on doing this on your own. Is this because you don't foresee your boyfriend sticking around? If that's the case, I would tell you to proceed with caution. Unless you have one hell of a support network to help you with this (because yes, you will need help, even the strongest single mothers need someone), you should be wary of using someone you don't see yourself staying with to father your child.

Then again, women go to sperm banks and choose fathers for their children based on factors not at all emotional rather often. I don't know.

I still have to stick with "wait until you're done with college". You'll thank yourself, lest you have to drop out of college to take care of the baby and while it seems ridiculous now, we don't want you subconsciously resenting him/her, and feeling like the baby held you back in life.

This is the HOROSCOPES section...got that?

I am not a single mother, however I recently graduated college four years ago. Speaking from experiences I had and a lot of my friends, the first few years out of college are THE most difficult years of your life. There is so much transition taking place, searching for the perfect job...which never happens right away, and simply trying to find your place in the world. Waiting two or three years until you are financially stable, and possibly married won't make you an old mom!!!

it is very hard being a single mum its ok when you can give babies back to their parents and get on with what you have to do because you can enjoy them when they are happy but you don't realise the sleepless nights and the crying. i think you should think a little but harder about this.

I feel sorry for your child.

And your boyfriend. Do you really want to involve him in this?



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