How compatible are Aquarius women with Virgo men?!
Question: How well do these signs go together in a relationship? Be as specific as possible plz! Thanks!
Answers: How well do these signs go together in a relationship? Be as specific as possible plz! Thanks!
Both are mental signs rather than emotional, but Virgo looks on the darker side of life while Aquarius is imaginative and optimistic. There is no strong sexual attraction between them. Aquarius needs activity, social events, a wide circle of acquaintances. Virgo enjoys a quiet existence with a few close friends. There will be neither especially strong excitation, nor interesting erotic games. The sober, practical Virgo is inclined to criticize the Aquarius' generosity. Their goals are very different: Aquarius wants to be as brilliant as possible; Virgo wants to be as efficient as possible. The marriage is possible in case they both have strong feelings towards each other.
you have to be more sensitive. thats about it.
Some of it also depends on what sign your moon is in, you rising sign, etc. But I can speak from personal experience. I am an aquarius and I was in a relationship with a Virgo man. Again I can't speak on all Virgo men, but it was the most boring relationship I was ever in. He was so bland and so serious. I needed someone a bit more spontaneous, and with a sense of humor. I would have been bored to tears in a relationship with him.
Virgo/Aquarius
If you have fallen for an Aquarius, you intuitively want to be influenced by a personality very different from your own. Aquarius are quirky, untraditional, quixotic, idiosyncratic, curious, unconventional, forgetful (at times), and coolly objective. You are traditional, careful, thoughtful, detailed, curious, cautious, productive, and coolly objective. So you see, there are differences, but one or two big similarities also. Will they be enough?
You both are intellectual people, so the discussions you have will be lively and stimulating. Both of you like to absorb vast amounts of information and sort through what is fact and what is fiction. At the end of the day, you will trade interesting tidbits and stories, and have conversations swirling around the news and topical issues. You will never run out of things to say.
Virgo's gift is to create order and sense out of chaos, but Aquarius' gift is just the opposite. They take existing structures and smash them to dust, dissolving the establishment in order to eliminate what is no longer useful. Aquarius' role is to challenge the status quo, and your role is to piece together what has been broken -- the iconoclast and the conservator. Aquarius look upon the world with the critical detachment of a scientist; you look upon everything with intensity and in detail. You don't like disregarding rules, but your lover pushes right in that direction every time. Whether the two of you can reconcile your separate roles will depend on how much each of you admires and respects the work of the other.
Money can be a battleground for many couples, but not for you. You seem to agree on many levels here. Neither of you likes to be careless with money, and both of you have the ability to listen to the other when it comes to prioritizing financial goals.
The reason Aquarius are so forgetful is that they don't remember unnecessary details. If their computer can hold all the data they need, why keep it in their heads? You, of course, hold everything in your head: zip codes, the names of your neighbors' children, your next dentist appointment. They marvel at your ability to do this (at times they think you are some kind of savant). But don't scoff at your lover's inability to remember things; a genius has to be able to free his or her mind for more conceptual thinking.
It could well be in the boudoir that you two are most comfortably matched. You light up the house of sexuality in Aquarius' horoscope and thus, your lover will find you endlessly fascinating in bed. In turn, Aquarius' Uranian approach to everything is unusual, unpredictable, experimental and thrilling. Your lover is wilder and more creative in bed than you could ever be, and he or she will have to understand that this is something new to you and your natural reserve. This should not diminish your attraction to each other. Aquarius' emotional detachment might be okay with you in the beginning since you are so slow to commit. But if the relationship stays too platonic and does not grow in emotional depth (despite the wonderful sexual chemistry), it will be you -- rather than your lover -- who will cut the tie. You need romance and candlelight, and your Aquarius might think that's just cute sentimentality. Your Aquarius want a lover who is also their friend -- and you do, too, but if it's only that, you'll be gone with the wind.
As a Virgo you distrust desire. If you want something badly -- like love -- you hesitate, feeling nothing could live up to what you imagine, so therefore it probably couldn't exist. You could be surprised, so you should not take such a dark view of things. Your natural caution makes you worry that you will never find emotional fulfillment. Your lover, equally analytical in mind and spirit, feels similarly wary of marriage. Privacy and a need to retain individuality and self-sufficiency are so important to both of you that you both fear a loss of these qualities in marriage. Thus, it may take a long time to exchange rings and vows. Happily, your timetables are about the same. Your fears can be overcome in time, so don't fret; give one another enough space to get comfortable with the relationship.
Can this coupling work out? Can earth (your sign) and air (your lover's sign) mix well? This match is not a classic astrological blend, but it's still possible. Perhaps you have other planets in your horoscope that will make this relationship sing. Like anything else, your destiny is not in your stars, but within you.
Aquarius and Virgo
Virgo is precise and orderly, but Aquarius is quite comfortable in semi-chaos. Your sign rules genius and creativity, but in the creative process there is waste and discord. This can be hard for your lover to accept.
The hardest part of the Aquarius/Virgo union is that it lacks romantic abandon and sexual passion, from both your side and theirs. Virgo is ruled by cerebral, objective Mercury, and you are ruled by objective, idiosyncratic Uranus. You are an air sign and Virgo is earth, so while you may initially like their practical, "rooted" point of view, it is doubtful that this will continue throughout the years. Luckily, Virgo will not demand too much time from you, for they are busy people too -- Virgo is the original workaholic. You will appreciate their industriousness, but they won't understand your need to shock, upstage, or otherwise assert your idiosyncratic streak. Virgos are fairly conservative and need some level of social approval.
The success potential here is a really tough call, but like any other relationship, you can make it work if you give it an honest try. Perhaps you both have other planets in your charts that will make your relationship sparkle, which could be the case. Virgo admires Aquarius' service to the community, their mastery of highly technical subjects, their vision of the future, and their charismatic leadership style. In turn, Aquarius respects Virgo's no-nonsense, practical outlook and productivity. Virgo is more flexible than you are -- they roll with the punches more readily. Your Virgo lover could help you keep track of all the details so that almost nothing slips between the cracks. When couples are busy, one of the partner's organizational ability can be a great asset. If you develop a measure of fame in your life, Virgo would be your ideal behind-the-scenes manager (where they are happiest) in order to organize your schedule, meet with accountants, negotiate the finer points of your contract, set a realistic budget, traffic your orders, and suggest ways in which you can fix the flaws in your plan. Don't underestimate the power of having a Virgo on your side.
Take your time if you are dating a Virgo, and make sure you like the fit. If none of the down sides of this relationship seem to apply, you apparently have planets in your charts that override this Sun sign outlook. In that case, move forward with confidence!