Capricorns in Romantic Relationships?!
Question: I guess I could say I'm involved with a Cap guy who I've known for a little over two months. I'm the one who was interested first and it was told to him by a friend and then he started chasing me like you wouldn't believe. Then we became closer, emotionally, even on the phone for hours. He even said I was playing hard to get (this lasted a month). So it was back and forth. He wanted to have his way with me but I wouldn't let him. He told me how he felt once and only once and it was intense. So it's obvious that he likes me and his actions speak for themselves, too.
All of a sudden, I have started to feel like it's pointless but I'm being patient. He's SO distant now (we live a block away from eachother and I see him all the time = aloof?) and I wish he wasn't. Sometimes I feel like telling him that I miss him and still care for him but I don't have the courage.
Is this normal Cappy male behavior? It's SO obvious it drives me crazy.
Answers: I guess I could say I'm involved with a Cap guy who I've known for a little over two months. I'm the one who was interested first and it was told to him by a friend and then he started chasing me like you wouldn't believe. Then we became closer, emotionally, even on the phone for hours. He even said I was playing hard to get (this lasted a month). So it was back and forth. He wanted to have his way with me but I wouldn't let him. He told me how he felt once and only once and it was intense. So it's obvious that he likes me and his actions speak for themselves, too.
All of a sudden, I have started to feel like it's pointless but I'm being patient. He's SO distant now (we live a block away from eachother and I see him all the time = aloof?) and I wish he wasn't. Sometimes I feel like telling him that I miss him and still care for him but I don't have the courage.
Is this normal Cappy male behavior? It's SO obvious it drives me crazy.
He might be having personal problems... you have to say something to him soon. If you ask him how he feels, he won't lie to you. Otherwise, you might be waiting a long time.
He chased you... that doesn't happen too often with us.
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What's your sign?
This "situation" is interesting to me because I'm Aquarius with Cap rising and I'm in love with a woman who is Capricorn with Aquarius rising. We've only known each other for actually less than a month but I feel like I've known her all my life. However, I can't really relate to you and your guy because he doesn't seem that interested in you. And if you are interested in him, why are you playing hard to get? Perhaps he thinks that you're not interested. That's what I would think. If a woman is not interested in me I would not waste her time or mine. Love isn't something that has to be forced and uncovered. If it's not there in full view, it's not worth it. One way love is definitely a total waste of your time if he's so distant. You can't make a guy feel something that's not there. No one has to make me love my Capricorn Lady. And, no one but her can make me stop.
Maybe it's time for you both to stop playing games and move on. Sorry, but reality is an eye opener...or should be.
Edit: Okay, he said he had strong feelings for you once upon a time and according to you, "he tried to have his way with you". Perhaps he wanted "one thing" from you that he didn't get. Obviously he doesn't have the same feelings for you now and I hope you're not even considering "giving it to him" just to get his attention again. Real love doesn't work like that. He has moved on and so should you.