I'm a Taurus and he is a Leo how do I deal with him?!
Question: I'm stubborn, possessive and do things at my own pace, and he's trying to run things in the realtionship and i'm not into that. and he's stubborn to.
and I love sex and he acts like I don't apprecaite the amount of sex he gives me just because I want MORE..
how do i deal with him?or make it work?
cause i think i should start being passive
Answers: I'm stubborn, possessive and do things at my own pace, and he's trying to run things in the realtionship and i'm not into that. and he's stubborn to.
and I love sex and he acts like I don't apprecaite the amount of sex he gives me just because I want MORE..
how do i deal with him?or make it work?
cause i think i should start being passive
Everyone has there own qualities they can bring to a relationship perhaps he may be better in money or investing and you may lack in that area. So if he wants to run that let him. and something else he may lack in you may be right on the money about.
Try to pick your battles as long as he's respectful and lets you breath and wants your input as well as you want his input. you two should be able to work things out.
In all relationships theres a bit of give and take. IF theres something he really does that you dislike best way is to be honest and upfront with him.
Let him know that you feel your being controlled to much, perhaps he isnt' seeing that. Maybe he thinks he's helping you. by the same token you could be a bit sensitive and feel now that everything he does now is a bit to controlling.
I would step back and analize this and discuss what the top priorities are that you find you can't live with.
Sounds like you both want to be in the drivers seat and in control. Sometimes its best to let the man take control of certain things and you can take control in other areas he may need help in or around the house.
Regarding the sex. I hope you show him and he shows you how you both appreciate the other. Sometimes just saying I want more isn't the right approach.
Obviously you like his style so why not tell him often what you enjoy and how he is such a good lover. And sounds like some nights he's tired and your still wired for sound.
So some nights maybe just cuddle and give him some down time to recharge his battery's. Maybe he feels your just wanting him for one thing all the time and he needs to know you appreciate and value him in so many other ways just not the bedroom.
As far as how do you deal with him. I think the best way as each person is different is to communicate that to him let him know you care and want this to work and that perhaps your missing something and you would like to undrstand his feelings on the matter as well. Just both be open with each other.
Its easy to criticize we all hear about the wrong and bad things but not enough of the great things the other is doing. So I would work on that if its lacking in your relationship so instead of you two feeling you both have to have the upper hand. you can look at it as he's caring and protecting and wants to help you with things. by the same token if he's smothering you , you can be calm and let him know you appreciate his ideas however you'd like to try it this way.
Good luck, sounds like you just have your wires crossed could be a new relationship and you have to get the kinks out and sometimes too you have to give a little and comprimize.
It will all work itself out if you work on it.
Perhaps he's not the one. If you have to "force" it to work like you are asking about then it may be a bad match up. And ignore the zodiac signs. Those are a terrible way to gauge relationships.
Scratch him under his chin until he calms down. We Leo's can be passive until you piss us off.
Do not become 'passive'. The feelings will build and explode. If he's giving you a great amount of sex and your not appreciating it, use a couple of toys and bring it to a level that satisfies the both of you. I wish I knew more of what you meant by "run things", but be yourself and stand by what you believe & makes you happy! It's the only way to get throught this life where you see so many pissed off people...just make the best of things!!!!
i dont know about you. but i do know a healthy taurus has a healthy appetite for sex. only another bull can please and satisfy our sexual appetites. sure the other signs are can make good friends, but thats all. it takes a bull to tame another bull.personally speaking
COMPROMISE.
Am taurean, he is Leo. He loves to control & have the power, he is very proud, huge ego ( eye for women, but don't let on you know, as he becomes volatile, my Leo wont divorce his wife )
We are great mates, I am sensual, romantic, passionate. He is more into physical sex. It is an unusual relationship, however I do not see him as loving, he likes more than one woman admiring him at same time, & I like to feel special, not 2nd best !! They are indeed kings of the jungle, unless you came tame him to be a pussycat. I been patient and persistent for over 3 years !!