How do Leo North Node ppl create close rel. while also learning to stand on our !


Question: "Hold on loosely?" Hmmm...What's up with that? We are also not supposed to turn away from ppl and try to go it alone. It's a dilemma.

I do find that whenever I rely on people mostly they prove unreliable or inconsistent. It could be that this just is the way life is, or it could truly be because my North Node is in Leo.

My North Node squares both my sun sign and moon sign: Scorpio. I love the spotlight and I love inspiring other ppl to share the spotlight. So, I love teaching, performing, organizing events, hosting open mics, and facilitating groups. Love the synergy. But at the end of the day, in my solitude, I would just like to know that there is at least one or two ppl I can rely on, that someone also has my back. Supposedly, relying on other ppl is not the path of the North Node in Leo in this lifetime. So, what chance is there for intimacy? Doesn't intimacy req. trust?

Insights? Thanks.


Answers: "Hold on loosely?" Hmmm...What's up with that? We are also not supposed to turn away from ppl and try to go it alone. It's a dilemma.

I do find that whenever I rely on people mostly they prove unreliable or inconsistent. It could be that this just is the way life is, or it could truly be because my North Node is in Leo.

My North Node squares both my sun sign and moon sign: Scorpio. I love the spotlight and I love inspiring other ppl to share the spotlight. So, I love teaching, performing, organizing events, hosting open mics, and facilitating groups. Love the synergy. But at the end of the day, in my solitude, I would just like to know that there is at least one or two ppl I can rely on, that someone also has my back. Supposedly, relying on other ppl is not the path of the North Node in Leo in this lifetime. So, what chance is there for intimacy? Doesn't intimacy req. trust?

Insights? Thanks.

Hello, Darling =)
You'll be happy to read this.

A tendency to rely on others who may let us down, to come across as impersonal or distant in our dealings with others, to be fearful of being the center of attention and standing out as an individual, to fear taking risks, and to fall back on peers and community at the expense of our own individuality are some of the issues this position suggests. With this position, we need to avoid falling into the easy trap of worrying about what others think about us. Instead, we need to strike out in our own individual and creative path without fear. We need to make a conscious effort to deal with others in a more personal, involved, and loving manner, rather than falling back on reason and intellect which detaches us from our feelings. We can easily alienate others when we over-emphasize equality to the point that we won't acknowledge individuals' uniqueness. We can too easily lose touch with our own heart by rationalizing our feelings, and become overly involved with other people's problems at the expense of our inner needs for attention. Learning to take personal risks, which requires a certain amount of self-confidence, will help us to achieve inner balance and happiness.


By developing the strength of your will and emotional warmth toward others, you overcome eccentric and impersonal attitudes that hold you back.

Trust is a major requirement in all relationships. It's the mold that holds it all together. The foundation it sets on. Once that is broken, it seems like everything else around it falls apart as well.
You are a scorpio? Well even as our signs can very well guide us and be true, sometimes it can surprise us just the same. :-)
While intimacy req. trust, the chance lies within us. We have to want to take that chance, and risk. Love, and affection; it is what nourishes our souls; our very existance. It's up to us to keep our hearts open for when that chance appears so that we may grab it, and take that risk. Trust within that, doesn't come immediately. Trust is earned. It takes time, and only one second to break it.
Whenever you rely on ppl and you experience inconsistancy, or unreliability, it may because sometimes we go in the friendship, or relationship with such high expectations. And those expectations may not fit the person you are with,or being friends with. Expectations, from what I have learned has to measure with the individual. Except for truth, honesty, etc. The basic ones that make up a true lasting relationship. They, I believe should stay the same.

I hope what I said pertains to your question. Sometimes I get ahead of myself, and sometimes I may say something that is totally off key. I'm not always confident when it comes to understanding and comprehension. Crazy huh.



The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007 enter-qa.com -   Contact us

Entertainment Categories