How do I make This SAG my BOYFRIEND?!
Question: He is a sagitarrius male (nov.23) and we are in college. He is 3 years older than me and we've been hanging out a lot...sleeping over at eachothers, cuddling, kissing..etc..we never had sex but he's fingered me..srry too much info there.. but he has told me he would like me to be his gf but he doesn't want to rush b/c we've only known eachother for 3 weeks. There is so much chemistry between us and he was drunk when he said that..however, the next day we went out to dinner together and as we were walking it came up again and i asked him is he meant what he said and he said what do you think? ofcourse. any advice? thanks!
Answers: He is a sagitarrius male (nov.23) and we are in college. He is 3 years older than me and we've been hanging out a lot...sleeping over at eachothers, cuddling, kissing..etc..we never had sex but he's fingered me..srry too much info there.. but he has told me he would like me to be his gf but he doesn't want to rush b/c we've only known eachother for 3 weeks. There is so much chemistry between us and he was drunk when he said that..however, the next day we went out to dinner together and as we were walking it came up again and i asked him is he meant what he said and he said what do you think? ofcourse. any advice? thanks!
Okay, so he said yes, then It's a yes! You both have hit on each other.
I suppose you're not very sure about it yet, right?
If you want to know for sure, ask him again. he'll tell you.
Sags are honest and direct with their feelings.
If you want to win over his heart and make him yours, I guess I'll give you some tips on how to tackle a sag guy:
Sag men are flirty and they are not only hard to get but they also like to "play hard to get". Sag is one of the most macho sign of the zodiac but they are a lot more sensitive than they seem to be. They can't resist the real challenge for sure.
Don't give him everything you've got cuz if they get what they want too easily, it's not going to hold their attention for more than one second.
Don't be a stuck up b!tch cuz he won't like it. Be modest yet elegant, witty and original, Listen to him, be honest, Treat him with respect, don't be a pushover, Stand up for yourself, don't be needy and clingy, Make him laugh and make sure you laugh at his jokes, Show him you have a life outside him, Be energetic and enjoy fun a much a he does and Give him compliments, lots of compliments!! such as "you have sexy fingers!!"
Hope this helps
I'm a sag, btw
ADDED: Do not have sex with him yet. Tell him he can't have you and he'll stop at nothing to show you who's boss. Let him win you. Wait, He definitely knows the difference between love and sex, so watch out! if you want to know what he's after, just ask him.
Good luck.
To Gata Celosa below " Thumbs-up for ya!
buy him a dog and teach it to bite him in the nuggets. he'll always think of your when he walks in the door
okay he is a sagittarius and what are you?
relax. have patience. that's my advice.
Advice - Make sure he washes his hands first! Who knows where that finger has been! :)
Enjoy life, be safe, have fun!
Oh ... and forget the astrology crap, it should never be used to guide you to a lover .... use your instincts and be open to love.
Hello you in college. Either grab him now or lose him later.
Say "I'd love to be your girlfriend."
Sags are all about freedom and flight. Don't tie this sag down if he wanted to he would have asked. I think you have a nice thing going now. Why do you have to put a lable on it?
Well Sounds like u have someone u dont want to lose! I would stick with it myself . Be myself and see how it goes. Go with the flow and no i wouldnt sleep with him either if he is willing to be with u just the way u 2 are now i would take it and keep it that way untill u are his gf. Sounds like does want to be in it for the long run just not right now ! Just keep in and have fun ! Ur still young !
he already said he want that Just say yes....whats so difficult?
yes go out with him .. somepeople just dont get it sometimes..
Whatever you do, don't have sex with him, just keep giving him a little kissing, cuddling, manual sex lol. He will go crazy for you. You don't have to put a label on your relationship. It's not that important. If people ask you if you have a boyfriend say well I have someone special in my life. Just continue hanging out with him and he will let you know what's up. If you start hanging out exclusively and spending lots of time together and having sex, then he is your boyfriend and you can call him that, and he better be calling you his girlfriend! : )
Scr_w his brains out, half way though roll him over on his back and tell him how it's going to be and finish on top. He'll listen.
Don't push. Let him chase you a little bit, but don't mess with his head or anything. Be yourself. It will all work out in its own time.
You've not said what your sign is. Anyway, Sags do mean what they say, they're just not very committed when they're in a relationship. If you can deal with them flirting around with whoever they fancy well go for it. Really, I'd just use him and leave him if I were you. Oh please give me a thumb down why don't you...I'm just trying to protect her, If you don't leave first they will. And hell if we're gonna let them do that!
aww! thanks #1 Girl..an honor coming from you! big fan here! lol