Women with the sun sign Cancer?!
Question:
Women with the sun sign Cancer?
do u ever feel like u r being taken advantage of because of your kindness. Especially when it comes to love and trying to keep someone in your life. do u do things to make the other person happy and forget about yourself ? Are u too nice? Do u love too strong and do not receive the same in return? I am a cancer sun sign and curious to see if we all have this in common or at least some of us. Is it a sign thing or just a woman thing????Thanks in advance.
Answers: yesish so lets get a new attitude and let someone take care of us for a change, its our sign that is for sure, and lets go kick butt ,, time to think of ourselves, yes we do but, now i stopped caring coz alot of people were regardless of my feeling If the determinance of sun signs was all that made any difference, then the uniqueness of 6 billion people around the world would be reduced to just 12. In the U.S. alone, that would mean there are 25 million people exactly like you. No difference between you.
But there are also moon signs, ascensions, declinations, etc. that increase the differences.
On top of that, what makes you tick, according to astrology, is also the interaction with the myriad aspects of another person's signs.
People can exhibit exceptional kindness, yet still maintain reservation so that undue advantage is not taken of them. In fact, 'Class' has been defined as the art of disagreeing with someone in such a way that the other person actually appreciates it.
Don't blame astrology for your shortcomings. I've known several Cancerians who are sensitive, thoughtful, and giving without allowing themselves to be unfairly used. And all of us have been 'used' at some time, regardless of sun sign. ive got a close friend who is Cancer and so sweet...shes been having an affair cuz the hubby is impotent and now the lover has left her for someone else cuz she has a daughter in a wheelchair...this guy is making me sick and she wants to kill him....she has been pushed... Yes. Cancers are the mother of the zodiac and we also like to try and "fix" people who are "broken". I think this is why we end up in relationships where we give and get nothing in return. We chose people with problems (addiction, depression, anger management issues, etc.) who don't care enough about themselves much less anyone else because we get to take care of them and "mother" them. We think that if we just love them enough all their problems will go away and they will get better. It never works though. The situation just gets worse and worse because we're enabling them to stay just how they are and not work on bettering themselves. You can't make someone happy, they have to learn to make themselves happy. It seems to be a common trait with us Cancerian ladies; the trusting selfless nurturer.
That very easily gets you taken advantage of.
But, then I met someone who really appreciates me... and I've been with my Gemini man for 9 years now.