Ne gals dated a Scorpio man?!
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Ne gals dated a Scorpio man?
Have ne of you gals dated a Scorpio man & experiened this: in the beginning he's kinda rude & a smartass, then he starts not being rude and is actually nice but u can tell his walls r still up, then he actually surprises you every now & then by remembering things u have said and by being very sweet, then IF you get mad he totally pushes you away eventhough he did something wrong & u were just confronting him. Yup, u guessed it ....... this is my situation! HE messed up & when I yelled @ him he TOTALLY pushed me away. What to do ... I am guessing I should just let him figure things out. Additional Details
2 days ago
Forgot to say: the reason why he pushed me away is not b/c of the reason I yelled @ him, but due to him not liking the fact that were far, he said it's frustrating and he doesn't like his feeling "running over him." I didn't have a clue that he felt like this. I don't know if this is the reason or if hes just trying to avoid the fight & me being so confrontational? He won't even talk on the phone b/c he said he'll "fall for me" again. He said: we need to not talk for awhile until we can just b friends & then we'll try talking. Hes supposed to moved back next yr
2 days ago
hes away @ Uni
Answers: 2 days ago
Forgot to say: the reason why he pushed me away is not b/c of the reason I yelled @ him, but due to him not liking the fact that were far, he said it's frustrating and he doesn't like his feeling "running over him." I didn't have a clue that he felt like this. I don't know if this is the reason or if hes just trying to avoid the fight & me being so confrontational? He won't even talk on the phone b/c he said he'll "fall for me" again. He said: we need to not talk for awhile until we can just b friends & then we'll try talking. Hes supposed to moved back next yr2 days ago
hes away @ Uni Depends on how you feel sweety but I would wait until he trys to play with you again, could take years to dole out this punishment but he will show up, seems like he liked you enough, but I dont like this behavior and I think they need to experience a zap every now and then to wake the f_uck up thats when you do a 123 punch and dust off your hands and walk away. He might come back after that but once you start fighting with a scorpio man you can never trust him again. Good Luck sweety.-Rachel. my experiances with scorpios have been bad... all nice and sweet.. the first one lived over 200 miles away.. i drove to see him then he dumped me because of the distance,.. now he wants me back sorry for what he did.. the other well he wanted too much of me and my time.. the others go the same wya... whatever the fact is, i do not trust scorpios!!! Um...Scorpios, male OR female, are emotional creatures, so you never do know what exactly it is that they are thinking!
It sounds like you just need to give him a chance. He remembers things that you tell him (even if they're little) and he actually has cut back on the smart *** remarks after you let his guard come down a bit.
Sounds like it'd be worth it to pick apart his brain and get to know him better! I know *I* would!!
;-) LOL woah you just described my b/f exactly!! we have been together for about a year and a half now but with a 6 month break in between... we have also made it to the stage of him being nice, he actually takes me out on "dates" now and everything haha... but he also tends to get mad, mostly it seems like he gets offended easily and 90% of the time though, i didn't intend for him to get offended or hurt by what i said... its like he overreacts almost so much that i wonder if i did something else wrong but didn't realize it!
i recommend letting him have some time to figure things out, my b/f really appreciates his time he has alone, that is one thing i've been doing since we've been back together is letting him have more space... i was kind of clingy when we first started dating... but things are going a lot better now and he actually seems like he's gotten more touchy-feely than me since i've let him have space. just let him cool off for a while... i think things will be fine. You just summarized Scorpios!
Very intense, really good at sex. They can be great AND they can be cruel all at the same time.
Don't get them mad, they will fight with every bone in their body! u r 100% right they are like that at the begining but late the become sweet and they remember every single word came from your tongue. if he pushes u away u should be the first one to call and the second time too. the chances of scorpio guy calling is like on in million becuase they will think they are weak and will cant face theirselves. it is your call now. call the most loyal passionate powerfull emotional and empathic man or cry your whole life