Virgos and Communication?!
Question:
Virgos and Communication?
You would think it would be our forte but do any other Virgos have problems communicating with others (due to your tone, being analytical, condescending or critical?)?
Answers: Goodness, yes! I was beginning to fear that perhaps I was the only one.
I'm often told that I have a cold, formal, affected tone and vocabulary when speaking with other individuals, and it certainly isn't done intentionally. I naturally analyze a bit more than others, and will simply speak out with whatever my conclusion might be, and many individuals find that to be a bit too much, as though I were condescending to them.
Essentially, everything you mentioned in your question.. is part of my overall communication issue.
It isn't that we can't get our thoughts out there verbally - it's that other people have difficulty accepting them because of everything that goes into the package with our words. Sometimes I'm really critical. Over time I've learned to "let the the small stuff go" and to not sweat it. It's hard for me not to backseat drive. But I can easily tell someone how much they mean to me. yes , because people always think im trying to be a smart *** when really im just smart lol I think they are wonderful communicators, second only to Aquarians.
With Mercury as their ruling planet, they have lightning fast minds, and can think and communicate on their feet.
As a paradox, they come into the conversation prepared, or they don't venture in at all. I've never known a Virgo to BS when it is something important.
Virgos communicate the truth, unless they have some messed up ascendant. And the truth can be hard to take.
If you want it straight from the hip, they are your go-to person.
And as for criticism, if it needs a critique, you are going to get one.
Just know that Virgos are 100 times harder on themselves than anyone else in their lives. Whatever they might express to you verbally, they scream at themselves inwardly.