How can I convince him that I am the right woman for him?!
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How can I convince him that I am the right woman for him?
Hi, I am in my mid 30s and have had successful life professionally but looking back I think, have lost out on my personal life. I have always been popular when I was younger but I had been a commitment phobic and never got into any serious relationship. Now that I am in my mid 30s, I do want to get into a relationship and there is this man whom I think is finally the right man for me and vice versa, but with two bad marriages, he seems cynical about getting into another relationship. We have had few interaction but havent discussed anything personal. If we made an effort I know we could get along very well but as a woman its awkward for me to make the first move and I know he will not be the one to ask me out either. How can I let him know that I would be the right woman for him and that he should try out another relationship without making it appear that I am asking him out which may put him off as he is a Libran. I happen to be Libran too. Please advise!
Answers: If he doesn't want to be in a relationship try and be his confidant, listen to his reasons and fears for not wanting a relationship. Try and find out what caused the two marriages to fail, so you can show him those won't be a problem along with any other concern he might have. Get to be friends and let him get to know you, he'll probably ask you out. If you have trouble becoming his friend try and find and mutual friend or acquaintance and get them to help; or just become better friends with them so you'll have more opportunities to get closer to him. Also you might not have had a commitment phobia but have just been waiting for the right man to commit to. Good luck and i hope i helped. There's never one way. I find relations to be better if they are.. happy and.. easy going...? Maybe it would be better if you were good friends first, like to see if you two click... peoples mind change.. etc