Why every friendship I have with a different Scorpio person turns to be in the s!


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Why every friendship I have with a different Scorpio person turns to be in the same model?


Actually I am wondering when I meet a Scorpio we become close friends in a very short time, we earn each others respect and trust and in the beginning it is great friendship tough with the years it turns to misunderstanding, rarely showing emotions and only the respect to each other is left but we become distant with the years and it is really weird but we are still friends since many many years now. Lately I met a new Scorpio friend and I suppose this model will repeat again and I do not know if I do something wrong with the time with my Taurus stubbornness or just the qualities I can offer to the friendship got worn off but I really do care no matter I feel distance and aloof attitude as well. I really engage myself with understanding more about the Taurus-Scorpio friendship.


Answers: hi natalie,
I hope all is going well w you. I admire the fact that you are still "struggling" to pan out your friendships w your scorpios. I think that you have to remember that we are the opposite sign to lovely taurus. we do everything this way... the exact opposite you would go about it... but at the sametime, the way we do things are not always the best- that's why are opposite is so attractive (why we feel we need them). My mom is a taurus- growing up it was great but extremely hard- but the older we get the balance is becoming so beautiful! I think that being brought up by her has help me evolved faster as a Scorpio. I think that's why I love my taurus friend so much sometimes I didn't understand her- sometimes I didn't want to understand her... but that's not what it's all about in life. Too many ppl get divorces today, quit too soon, or are into conveinences and too into themselves and all it does it teach our children to be selfish, hold grudges, and simply just miserable w secret regrets and guilts that are too complex for them to even figure out. I say give yourself some worth and tell your friends that you care about them and that burning bridges is not healthy. Maybe they don't know what it's like to be cared for: "ask them what does it mean to care for someone"... speak your mind (heart actually) and give yourself space to relax, cry, pray, write or treat yourself to something and say to yourself you've done everything you could- they'll come back around (keep positive). Sometimes ppl need to go through some experiences to be selfless and appreciative. I know you are under 25 like me, so even if the relationship is rocky in the twenties (that's normal) we're still babies- we're strengthening a foundation, try to make every friendship a lifetime one. It's impossible to have a relationships w/o forgiveness, shunning your own pride... etc. their not always going to be toe to toe w you- but it's the big picture!! I know you don't want them to know that you ask questions about them- but that's huge and it speaks volumes, maybe you want to print some of them out and show them. It's kind of like baring your heart and there's nothing wrong w that. I'd do it for my Taurus friend. I wrote her a long letter about a year ago about all the things we went through during the many years (I remember everything), it spoke volumes I'm sure- but her feedback wasn't important, it was important that I wanted her to know, so I did it. Anyways talk to you later and don't worry about your stubborness and what you are doing wrong, you'll change gradually whatever needs to be changed. Your heart is obviously in the right place so you need to acknowledge that and stop blaming yourself. Your real friends accept you and all your faults- their love will change you without complaints. I'm a Scorpio, my partner a Taurus and i couldn't agree with you more when it comes to Taurus stubborness but! We've come to reaching a deal. We communicate. I tell him how i feel about one thing or another and he does the same. Of course we sometimes agree to disagree but then most couples do at times!

I tend to withdraw from situations i know would lead me to blow up and you know what scorpios are like when they do LOL And he's learnt not to try and bug me to tell him what is wrong, Instead be patients and wait until i'm prepared to tell him why i prefer a stint in my ivory tower when i want. As a Taurus he loves to have people around him most times and that's OK by me! He works away from home most weeks so can socialise as much he likes and i'm glad he does because then, and while he's away at work, meeting his family and friends after work ... I get my privacy that i do so enjoy. By the time he gets home at the week end, we're both happy to be together again. I don't feel besieged having someone under my feet all the time and he's quite happy to relax and not want our time together invaded by visitors. So you see ... it's all about finding out the right balance. it works for us!

Good luck

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