Do you have a parent who is a Cancer who doesn't fit the profile of "amazin!

Do you have a parent who is a Cancer who doesn't fit the profile of "amazing parent" commonly associated with

this sun sign? or is your experience similar to mine? Where the parent claims themself to be this fantastic parent and never able to see the mistakes they made, rather blames you for things that were beyond your control, but well within theirs? and very selfish instead of sacrificing as cancer profiles indicate?

This experience I already realize is not unique to me, as my father has a similar relationship with his cancer father, and my cancer uncle is also very much like this with his daughter.

maybe these experiences are only unique to my family, but i have often wondered if this profile of what a cancer is was written by a cancer and not an unbiased astrologer

what are your experiences?

My mother is a Cancer (I am a Scorpio). My mother is so overly sensitive, emotional, moody, and angry, there was no room for my emotional needs as a child. All us kids basically had to have her interests/not our own. If we wanted to pursue what interested us, she would get hurt, angry and verbally abusive. I don't think she really wanted kids, but when she got married, which she was kind of pressured into, then the next thing she was "supposed to do" was have kids. She was born in that time frame, with parents that thought going with the flow was just what you did to appear normal.

So, no, my mother really was not the nurturing type at all. If she had waited and had children later, maybe, but I believe the pressure that was put on her ruined the experience for her.