How do I know how he really feels about me?!

How do I know how he really feels about me?

I'm a Pisces and he's a Taurus. We met as co-workers, than became friends and than more than friends. At that time neither of us were interested in a serious relationship. We had a blast being together... I started to have feelings for him the more we hung out and the more I got to know him. His friends could tell he really liked me, but he and I would never admit any type of feelings towards each other or discuss the relationship. You might call it a love hate relationship. We liked to agravate and torchure each other... He found another job so we no longer worked or seen each other everyday. I started to have financial difficulties and he also was having some financial and personal problems. We slowly drifted apart. Since than we've talked a few times and went to lunch once. How do I found out how he really felt about me? Is this something I should pursue or is there a reason we drifted apart. I think I might of fell in love with this one...

You either need to ask him or tell him how you feel about him. Unfortunetly the downside to a water/earth relationship is mud which is what you too are stuck in . Either you bring more emotion(sharing your feelings) or he needs to bring more earth(being stable by calling you first and taking some initative) or you will be stuck in the mud.