Tips for a Gemini nurturing an emotionally scarred Cancer?!


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Tips for a Gemini nurturing an emotionally scarred Cancer?

I'm a Gemini female (22) in a serious relationship with a Cancer male (28), just about to hit the six month mark. My Cancer has had a lot of very painful passed relationships, and was extremely hesitant to get involved in another relationship. He broke up with me once previously, when we were just starting out, in fear of things getting too serious. Several months later he wanted to try again, and so far we enjoy each others company immensely when we don't have to talk about our problems! He's suffered some very traumatic things (loss of only child, being used for sex, cheated on, engaged and then falsely accused of cheating so the engagement would end), and he's built up some pretty thick walls and developed behaviors that can be pretty destructive to the relationship when I'm not the right twin that day. Together we've started to get some of his defenses to lower but it's still a daily fight. So does anyone have any tips for a loving Gemini trying to coax her Crab out of his shell?


Answers:

You can't. Cancer's hang onto everything of sentimental value-that is just their nature. The best thing you could do is not bring up anything in his past unless he chooses to bring it up first. And start creating wonderful memories together. Gemini's are known to have problems dealing with emotions themselves. They deal with things from an intellectual point of view, while the Crab goes by instinct and emotion. You keep bringing back those emotions that are buried in his subconscious and past-and he's going to connect them to you. Cancer is the nurturer of the Zodiac...let him nurture you because that will be what ultimately brings him out of his shell.


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