Is he going to break up with me?!

Is he going to break up with me?

I was born on sep/7/78 in beijing China, and my bf was born on Nov/14/78 in albany NY. I have been under tremendous stress recently. And I have been having bad temper during the past month, feeling everything is going wrong. I picked up a fight with my bf the other day over some meaningless small thing. I regret what I did and feel really sorry and ashamed. But my bf wanted to break up with me. After we discussed about it (because I really don't want to break up with him), he left me no answer and went on vacation with his friends. I am so afraid that he is coming back and breaking up with me for good. There is nothing I can do now (he is out of cellphone range now, and my friends told me to wait), but I am feeling anxious and sad, every minute seems like a day for me. I need any help that either makes me accept the break up or hold some hope for our relationship.

I took a look at your chart and that of your partner, and the problem seems to rest on the influences being experienced currently by your partner's chart.

In your partner's birth chart, the planet Mercury, which rules communication, is in a square (difficult) aspect with his Saturn, planet of restrictions. What that means generally is that he is not a very good communicator at the best of times. It also causes problems for you since, being a Virgo, Mercury is your ruler. It means that, even when things are going well between you, problems in communication will arise from time to time.

The problems will occur when your partner's Mercury/Saturn connection is triggered into action by a transiting planet. At the moment, this is exactly what is happening. The planet, Uranus, is transiting this difficult point in your partner's chart, and has been doing so since last year. This influence would make his communication with you highly unpredictable and sparodic.

The good news is that this influence is temporary, and will begin fading at the end of this year. I also noticed a strong indication in your chart that you have the potential to keep the doors of communication open with your partner (now and in the coming year) and thus the potential to resolve your difficulties.

My best advice to you, based on all that I have seen in your charts, is to be patient until this difficult phase is over, and then see how your relationship develops from there.

However, as I mentioned before, even when you are together, these phases of problematic communication will occur between you from time to time (not necessarily as serious as the current situation). That may be rather difficult for you, since good, consistent communication in relationships is so important to Virgos. But Virgos are also highly adaptable. In the end, it will of course be your choice as to how far you are willing to compromise and adapt.

Good luck and best wishes :)