I'm a Libra woman. I attract Taurus men by the herdful, but then I seem to scar!

I'm a Libra woman. I attract Taurus men by the herdful, but then I seem to scare them away...?

What am I doing wrong? This is the 3rd Taurus I have been interested in and I'm starting to wonder. Seriously, as we work up to a date, they flatter me with comments about how good I look, how much they enjoy talking to me, we get on famously, we talk non-stop, we seem very interested in each other and our lives, but then after a date, they seem overwhelmed and often retreat. Am I too intimidating as a Libra? Or too much for them to handle?

This may help here goes Libra!
Both Libra and Taurus are slow to commit to a relationship: Libra has to weigh every aspect of the decision, and Taurus doesn't like to change. But both have similar goals in life and a strong desire for harmony. For Libra harmony is achieved with beauty and order, for Taurus, a sensual earth sign, harmony comes from experiencing the physical world to the fullest-in other words, feeling good. For example Libra selects a sofa for the living room based on its color and style; and Scales want the couch to with the size and the colors of the room. Taurus will simply sit on the couch to how comfortable it is. Libra may mistake Taurus deliberateness for laziness. Taurus may think Libra is to picky. But neither sign like to argue, they'll make every effort to smooth over conflicts. Sometimes however, the way these two deal with disagreement can be frustrating. Libra loves a stimulating debate, which helps it find a middle ground. Not Taurus. The Bull cares more about dinner than debating and will give in easily. This tendency to concede the point can be frustrating to Libra who likes resolution. Another differicult area is old versus new. Taurus craves the old and familiar, friends, clothes food and restaurants. Libra loves challenges and change and may get fed up with stodgy Taurus. Both signs perfer slow romantic lovemaking. Taurus sensual, calm nature reassures Libra when life goes too fast. The Bull appreciates the refinement of Libra's romantic ways. Realistic Taurus offers idealistic Libra tenderness, security, and sensuality. This could be the perfect balance for the scales.

This is from a book I have. I am also Libra, but born on clusp so I am a Libra/Scorpio. Hope it helps.