Are we meant to be?:?!

Are we meant to be?:?

Myself - Aquarius 5th Feb 86, Melbourne Australia
Partner- Libra 17th Oct 82, Melbourne Australia

Libras and Aquarius are good matches, because they are both air signs. The enjoy intellectual conversations and open the other up to new social experiences. A very stimulating pairing.
However, all pairings have hiccups, and on this pairing, I would know. Libras like to be in relationships and put a lot of effort in them. Aquarians put more effort into friendships of all sorts. Putting Libra in a second fiddle position could upset them. And if the Libra is too pushy on the relationship, it can seem clingy, which is a big turn-off to Aquarians. Also, neither of these signs are very emotional, so it's hard to see where each is coming from (after all, they don't tell the other how they are feeling).
Aquarians also like the thrill of the chase. Once Libra makes themselves available to the Aquarius, Aquarius is no longer interested, but as soon as Libra becomes unavailable or disinterested, Aquarius is back and will fight for their attention. This can get on any sign's nerves, even the peace-loving Libras. And it takes a lot for a Libra to get angry, but when they do, look out!!!!
So since you're an Aquarius, use intellect and stimulating conversation to get the Libra (oh, and nice cologne helps too!), and make sure the Libra knows that you're as invested in the relationship as they are. They'll let you be yourself and have your freedom. They just need to know that their needs are being considered. If you're inconsiderate of them, it's gonna get ugly. But if you are just thoughtful to what's fair and right for the Libra and yourself, the relationship (and the sex, too) will be wonderful.