Will he ever show me how he feels?!

Will he ever show me how he feels?

How do I know if a Gemini man cares for me? This guy acts like a idiot (immature) around me but I have seen a mature nice guy a couple of times. Also when he wants attention from me he whines but doesn't give me the attention back. He acts normal when my friend is around or when he sees her alone without me. Is he acting like that because he likes me? He is 42 years old. Problem is we are both married. His wife treats him like crap and he knows I am happy in my marriage. I told him in a round about way I only want to be friends and now he acts even more clowny. I told him he before that he makes me laugh and he appreciates someone enjoys his humor. Does he act like that because he is comfortable to be his real self around me? Or is he covering his true feelings up by being a clown? His friend told me to watch out for him because he doesn't know what he is up to with me. I backed off in a big way. Avoiding him seems to make it worse. Why doesn't he just tell me his feelings?

Geminis are flirty, flighty and fun to talk with usually. Why he's immature doesn't have anything to do with his sun sign, I think. Or astrology for that matter.

You don't want to know his feelings or anything else in that area, IF you are already happily married, do you? If your marriage is happy (and I'm gonna be rough on you now, I know), if you are happy? get a hobby instead of thinking about a guy who's just not worth it.

I must say, dear, he sounds like someone you should run from not to. The man is 42! He should take control of his own life - maybe then his wife wouldn't treat him so bad.

Bear with me, if you think I'm too much - I do believe you should keep your distance.

Take care.