Astrologers please help me understand this?!

Astrologers please help me understand this?

Ok they say when someones moon conjuncts the other persons north node it sends a feeling of ment to be and also u knew them in a past life..well my boyfriends moon conjuncts my northnode. his moon and my north r both in aquarious. My moon also conjuncts his north node.My moon n his north node being in aries.So what does this mean?

There are different approaches to the nodes. Some people see the North Node of the Moon (aka the Dragon's Head) as indicating an area that requires karmic development. The South Node (or Dragon's Tail) is a place of karmic overload. So whatever appears in the Dragon's Tail is a bunch of stuff that you already have in abundance, either now or (if you believe in such things) in previous incarnations. Spiritual growth requires you to put attention on the Dragon's Head.

Incidentally, Edmund in King Lear makes fun of astrology by sarcastically using its terms with no meaning, "My father compounded with my mother under Ursa Major, and my nativity was under the Dragon's Tail, so that it follows I am rough and lecherous. Fut! I should have been that I am had the maidenliest star in the firmament twinkled o'er my bastardizing...."

Of course, by the end of the play pretty much everyone thinks destiny is real. Whatever, it's not to the point.

Sweetheart, you seem to be looking all over the place for some kind of confirmation that you and this boy are "meant" for each other. No kind of self-analysis can tell you that you are "meant" for someone. There are choices. People you meet may be good in some ways, not so good in others. It's up to you to make those choices that you think are best.

It sounds to me like you're looking for some excuse to get with this guy. Well, then, you've already made up your mind. You know the other advice you've gotten. From what you've said on other questions, it doesn't sound to me like this guy is someone who is healthy for you. Not because of anything in the stars, but just from the offhand remarks you make on the situtation.

But you want to be with him. Yet you want some other reason than your own choice to be with him. Astrology doesn't give you that kind of certainty.

And what are you doing in the meantime? Dating him? Or sitting around thinking about it? "Talking" about it? It's just romance, for heaven's sake. The best advice I can give you is follow what your heart tells you, don't take any expectations with you, enjoy it if it's good, call it off if it's not and don't agonize about it in the beginning or make any recriminations if it doesn't go as you'd like. It's life. It's real. It's now. Do what you need to do. Live it.