A hurt sagittarius female... with an aquarius male?!


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A hurt sagittarius female... with an aquarius male?

Ok, i've known this guy for about 3 1/2 yrs, we went out broke up for a while n now r back together again, n it's been a yr thank god. thing is currently our relationship is long distance (in another country) n i havent seen him in 6 months. he is everything to me n i dont wanna be w/o him. he feels strongly for me as well. there have been times where i was really mean, and threatened multiple times of leaving him cuz of the way he'd act at times, but then after some time i felt bad n i thought our relationship is falling apart. so we both compromise etc etc.. where he was living he felt really lonely n would talk to me everyday every night etc... romantically. but right now he's in a diff country just to visit. so since his mind is occupied, several times he has said if ya wanna go on ur own path u can. pretty much he changed instantly. n it was weird n hurtful, as if he was only needing my company etc.. but he does love me, he said he's tired of the fact i havent seen him in so long.


Answers:

in as much as such relationship may seem romantic and noble, but the fact remains, long distance relationships are usually destined to go sour at one point in time. no matter how intense you feel love for each other, but the fact remains, you are physically apart. this is not withstanding the kind of longing and loneliness both of you are feeling, one is bound to seek some relief for such sad and deep emotional needs. they say distance makes the hear grow fonder, yes it may be true, but if you are constantly far apart and living separate lives, what is stopping each of you to inadvertly finding someone else to fill up the physical space left by your absence.
yes, human as we are, we too get tired from wanting and looking for a loved one who is constantly not around to give and fulfill the love that words alone cannot express. at least he is truthful in saying this, and that you should be thankful he is giving you a clean chance to move on, sans the confusion of not having any answers or reason why.
should you keep the relationship going? you can, if and only one of you gives way to go where the other is and finally be together. but if you continue being away with each other banking only on the romantic notion of a "long-distance-love-affair", then might as well stop it ASAP, and get on with each others lives.


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