I need a way to make a Gemini man hate me who might have feelings for me?!

I need a way to make a Gemini man hate me who might have feelings for me?

I have tried to ignore this Gemini guy that is married. I ignore him he comes right back. I have tried to act stupid & not talk to him on a intellectual basis. Which didn't work. He found out from my best friend that I had a crush on him & I wanted to be left alone and I am not playing games. He said it must have been his aftershave. That was low, I never got that close to him because it was a big temptation for me. I'm married too. He doesn't talk to me anymore but he sure still smiles and stares like he doesn't care how I feel or he might just be playing games. Like he is daring me. It's working if he finds out I am done. Now she is blows him off when she sees him & and he is giving her an attitude. He is gonna confront me & I need a sure fire way to get rid of him. What he doesn't know is I have strong feelings for him which are not right I have to be selfish and worry about myself. Any suggestions? I don't want to hurt his feelings which is the strange part. HELP!

basicly you need to keep your distance. at all
possible ignore him and try your best to not
have any run ins with him. what ever you do
try and not send him any signals that you have
any interest in him. even though you have some
interest in him and others know this..... keeping
distance is the best way to avoid him... i wish
you the best of luck ......